outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Yes its driving me crazy @Former-Member...
And the fb issue was a tricky one. Long story short i was in a group on fb they decided to win my trust bu asking to be friends all while the admin were deleting and blocking me from the group and then that perosn i trusted blocked me too. They dont want to hear my side of the story not even a story to tell its all in their heads. And these 2 keep unblocking me and pretending they care when they dont so it skrews around with me head. ..
And the fb issue was a tricky one. Long story short i was in a group on fb they decided to win my trust bu asking to be friends all while the admin were deleting and blocking me from the group and then that perosn i trusted blocked me too. They dont want to hear my side of the story not even a story to tell its all in their heads. And these 2 keep unblocking me and pretending they care when they dont so it skrews around with me head. ..
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Unknown userMember
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I hope it sorts out for you @outlander
Facebook can be so frustrating. 😳
Hi @Owlunar 👋💜
Facebook can be so frustrating. 😳
Hi @Owlunar 👋💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Yeh it can be @Former-Member its both good and stupid isnt it. I was going ok with being deleted and blocked and then they play stupid games. Thats the second time they have done that. Next time im planning on just ignoring it all together.
Will be ok though just frustrating 💕
Will be ok though just frustrating 💕
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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Hi @outlander @Former-Member
I get that - Outlander - as well as being a horse wrangler you have to be a data wrangler as well - (Imagine I have inserted a tired wilted little flower)
The bad sleeping thing - I started to have trouble sleeping when my hip went wonky and I haven't got it back so I really feel for you girls - it does your head in - I get that
It was really too hot here to go out and finagle up some food during the afternoon and I got a major headache - so I took something for the headache and I did sleep but luckily I brought some packet soup and energy balls because I didn't really want to eat dinner -
And after sleeping so late in the afternoon it might be some time before I get to sleep now - but that's okay
Right - facebook can be really good or really mouldy - when I was at University we were encouraged to use the insides of the toilet doors for graffiti - and people could be really nasty to each other - and I think now with so much access to social media that is some kind of cruel graffiti also
Btw - Outlander - what those people are doing putting your on their friends list and taking your off etc is called Gas Lighting and is a form of stalking -
Take it easy both of you and I hope you can get some sleep and Outlander - I find not sleeping okay because I live alone - to you find it easier now that you have so much more of your own space?
Dec
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Unknown userMember
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I’ve had to block most of my family @outlander
Can’t cope with people’s :pile_of_poo: lol
There’s enough to cope with in life.
Yes, best to ignore it.
Ignoring will make you the bigger person
Can’t cope with people’s :pile_of_poo: lol
There’s enough to cope with in life.
Yes, best to ignore it.
Ignoring will make you the bigger person
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Unknown userMember
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Take care too @Owlunar 💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I seem to wrangle everyrhing @Owlunar its annoying
Im starting to think i have some sort of sleep disorder. How can someone not sleep and toss that much they pull muscles and not react to sleep meds of any kind.... weird but go wont refer me elsewhere either.
Its nearly 11 oclcock here and no sleep on the horizon again. Its not hot where i am atm and i have the fan on and its cold but im still hot.
I hate social media and ive never heard of the term gas lighting either....
And when ido sleep yes i fins having the space alot better even without aleep it is still really good.
Hows your knee going and the rest of your aches @Owlunar ?
Im starting to think i have some sort of sleep disorder. How can someone not sleep and toss that much they pull muscles and not react to sleep meds of any kind.... weird but go wont refer me elsewhere either.
Its nearly 11 oclcock here and no sleep on the horizon again. Its not hot where i am atm and i have the fan on and its cold but im still hot.
I hate social media and ive never heard of the term gas lighting either....
And when ido sleep yes i fins having the space alot better even without aleep it is still really good.
Hows your knee going and the rest of your aches @Owlunar ?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Exactly @Former-Member dont need any more dramas 💕
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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HI again @outlander and @Former-Member
This hotel room has a bath that is broad and shallow and has a grab bar - I am going to have a bath soon that will help with the aches and pains I hope - even thinking about it makes my back feel better
At home my bath is deep and narrow and although I have a grab bar it can be hard to get out of it at times and I have felt as if I bath would be great for months
Aches etc - I have long legs and I didn't feel as if I had enough room in the taxi and it takes a long time to get to the airport from where I live and so yes - I had to spend the first aftenoon of my holiday reading then sleeping and it was too hot to go out anyway - but I did and boy - do I sweat - we have that in common I think
Lugging luggage - now I know where the word came from - wow - I feel it and maybe the computer was too much but I am glad I have it - and I will be okay - one of the benefits of advancing years is learning to take them with the rest -
I think you wrangle just able everything too - you are the champion wranger - I think I might be the champion finagler - a good pair
Gas Lighting or Gaslighting or Gas-Lighting - type any of those into your browser and you will come up with gas-lighting etc - it's a form of manipulation and I have read that word in this forum too
It seems as if you are being gas-ligthted - I am not at all sure what you can do about that - maybe I can find out - but it is very cruel behaviour
And thanks Bella - I am into Self-Care
Dec
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Sounda like a good bath @Owlunar when i went away for my 21st i had a spa bath in mine. Was like a double bath as it was a couples room but i got that one. Sounds like good self care there.
Ahh the joys of long legs and the backseat! Im tall too so often squished in the back seat. And lugging luggage is one of the worst! But sounds like you've found a nice place to stay making it more worth while.
Gaslighting sounds like such a horrid word! Wow ill take a look later on at it. Think its best to ignore it and not initiate anymore. Champion wranglers it is then!
Ahh the joys of long legs and the backseat! Im tall too so often squished in the back seat. And lugging luggage is one of the worst! But sounds like you've found a nice place to stay making it more worth while.
Gaslighting sounds like such a horrid word! Wow ill take a look later on at it. Think its best to ignore it and not initiate anymore. Champion wranglers it is then!
