rough time

those friggin fb people- 1 of them contacted me- didnt even know they unblocked me and asked how i going- yep like they care, then another who never blocked me but never talks to me now since i got blocked by others sent me one of those stupid chain mail things where its send it to your best friends thing. @Former-Member it is fking with my head

Oh Claire @outlander {I've been told it's ok to use the nick-name ;)}

That bloody Facebook - I discovered if you set everything to 'only me' - not even my child could get a message through to me . . . so I had to ease the security up a bit 😉

I don't know, I suppose everybody can have a change of heart, but I absolutely understand you not believing it! The chain mail thing was probably just sent to everyone in there list.

I get the feeling it doesn't take much to muck with your head at the moment, it's beyond exhausted. Can you turn your notifications off for an amount of time, so your not being bothered by it for a while? If you set who can see your stuff to 'only me' . . . that oughta do it; you can set it back anytime you want.

Loads of love to you I care

NN

oh good @Former-Member glad your allowed to use that- hoping its not upsetting the mods too much maybe i should put claire as my avatar

my settings are really high already and because they have contacted me before even if i set it to only me they can still msg me. it jsut bugs me that it was sorted. it seems they know when im getting over it as i was going fine i accepted it and then they do that.

no those 2 people i wont ever trust again i seen the msg from the vhain mail and ignored it and the other one who asked how i was i was i just said good thanks. thatll hold them off for a bit. i wont be responding to them anymore.

love you too

sorry NN i didnt mean to sound snappy 😞 @Former-Member

You didn't sound snappy my beautiful cyber-grandgirl Claire @outlander

Well if you did mean to . . . I didn't get it 😄 😄 😄

I'm hopping off the Forum for the night, going to watch some shows & have toast with my soup tonight 🙂

Good night sweet girl

NN is giving you stinky kisses on the forehead & trying to tuck the pillows around you to make you more comfortable . . . . but most of all, she's loving you

no i didnt want it to sound like that, @Former-Member thank you

good night and enjoy your movies, love to you too

Hi @outlander@Former-Member

Chain mail has found it's way onto FB - egad - some people have acidic little lives - can they not think of something useful?

Anyway I have not received any on FB - I am related to the most of the people I talk to on Facebook - it's better to keep it that way

But the chain mail thing - maybe this has stopped or become less because people do not tend to write letters as much - but I had them in the snail mail in the past - send them to your friends threatening terrible disaster if you do not send it on to other friends - omstars - I hated that so much but they used to be around a whole lot

I think both of you are doing the right thing - we don't owe people like that anything ANY-THING - their lives are small, boring and empty

Here - people don't even know each other's names and how wonderful this is - we can share the deepest of our thoughts and feel okay about it

All the best Claire and Granny Niqua from Granny Dec - the Owl in the Moon