outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Oh @outlander stupid people. Seriously, they've got nothing better to do with their time but b&*ch & moan. I know it's hard, but ignore them. How many 21yos are full time carers, hold down a part-time job AND have MI? They need to spend a day in your shoes!
I know it's easy for me to say you're not a failure (because I often say the same words you are saying to myself), but you are the one that has to believe in it yourself. Please ignore those spiteful people. They aren't worth your time or energy. Just say to them 'that's an interesting observation you've made' and walk away with your head up.
Lil Sis- I only vacuum ONCE a week, clean my shower every fortnight but my house is always clean and tidy. It's YOUR HOME, not theirs.
I know without even meeting you that you're a worthwhile decent and caring person @outlander. Can they say the same about themselves at your age? Hugs lil Sis. Big hugs.
I have to go out for a while, but I'm sitting right beside you until I return in a few hours. Xxxx
I know it's easy for me to say you're not a failure (because I often say the same words you are saying to myself), but you are the one that has to believe in it yourself. Please ignore those spiteful people. They aren't worth your time or energy. Just say to them 'that's an interesting observation you've made' and walk away with your head up.
Lil Sis- I only vacuum ONCE a week, clean my shower every fortnight but my house is always clean and tidy. It's YOUR HOME, not theirs.
I know without even meeting you that you're a worthwhile decent and caring person @outlander. Can they say the same about themselves at your age? Hugs lil Sis. Big hugs.
I have to go out for a while, but I'm sitting right beside you until I return in a few hours. Xxxx
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member - you're never excluded from making a comment hun. You're opinion is always welcome.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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they are suppose to be family too @Sans911 and people wonder why i get into the shower when people come over. as i said to LI1 they have older kids who look after themselves and tidy up after themselves. both over 25 plus they have their bf/gf and they clean up after themselves as well. and becasue they all work theres not much to be done anyway. you forgot babysitting 😉
thanks sis, i hope you enjoy your day out, i know your with me even when your not 
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Unknown userMember
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I'm not good @outlander, head is a bit better but getting distressed so have to calm down, had rapid heart and breathing last night,plus moments of my psychosis due to high anxiety with I think high blood pressure Try to go for a 🚶 this afternoon but hardly feel like leaving my bedroom.They still should not comment @outlander we all do things differently,and considering your age you are doing the best you can do.
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Unknown userMember
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Basically they are trying to make you feel inferior or intimidate you @outlander, that's what makes me 😡.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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I agree, it’s bullying ......
Hi @Former-Member @outlander @Sans911 ..... anyone else here who I have missed ?
Hi @Former-Member @outlander @Sans911 ..... anyone else here who I have missed ?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Could you take one of those meds your gp prescribed @Former-Member just to take the edge off? Its too hot to go walking here yet. Maybe later on this arvo ill go like 7 oclock. Love daylight savings for that reason.
Have you been seeing any brumbies on your walk? Maybe you could do some gardening esp since you enjoy it?
Morning @Faith-and-Hope
These people are the ones that if they were to help scream it from the rooftops and make me look like an idiot. And they are headed away for holidays for 2 weeks now. actually my whole family does it. They think its easy but they wont help when i ask . When my nan got sick and pop needed help not one person offerred to help except when she was really close to death- you know ehat that means and after ahe passed and her will was done they never come back around. I became her part carer through my school yrs to give pop a break ( upaid but not in it for the money)
Have you been seeing any brumbies on your walk? Maybe you could do some gardening esp since you enjoy it?
Morning @Faith-and-Hope
These people are the ones that if they were to help scream it from the rooftops and make me look like an idiot. And they are headed away for holidays for 2 weeks now. actually my whole family does it. They think its easy but they wont help when i ask . When my nan got sick and pop needed help not one person offerred to help except when she was really close to death- you know ehat that means and after ahe passed and her will was done they never come back around. I became her part carer through my school yrs to give pop a break ( upaid but not in it for the money)
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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*i dont mind caring though just gets hard sometimes and those people dont help
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Unknown userMember
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@outlander it can be so hard when those around you dont understand or appreciate just what it involves sometime, everybody deserves a day off so please try not to take to heart what they have said i know easier said than done. I hope you have an ok day today 💖🌻
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Unknown userMember
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Morning @Faith-and-Hope
I'm not edgy like couple of days ago,@outlander but I think my blood pressure spiking is my problem ATM and would not take one of the mood stabilisers on top.I didn't like how I felt Friday but think it was blood pressure not the sample he gave me.
Just had a bath but just doing that felt the need to lie down due to lightheadedness.
My family sounds like yours @outlander.You think you know and realise things,but you are always realising.I always knew how inconsiderate my mother was when I couldn't take off on my own ,now more than ever I realise she has no respect of appreciation of my life.
My two sisters do very little,the niece that got married two weeks ago I was angry because mum had to pay for a motel room because my sister 2 put my other sisters kids up at the house so my sister 1could have time in a motel with her boyfriend.As well they can afford a motel,my mother can't.As well my mother raised her two kids for several years with my help due to her neglect and selfishness.I was also P**** because one reason I didn't stay away last week was my guilt over if she falls in the house and no one is here.Yet @outlander, everything is me and not them.
Can understand @outlander,last one to see my father before he went out the back door and died,and had the responsibility since,also had plenty of punches,which I wonder how many more times I can pick myself up off the ground for.
