outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Lee82Senior Contributor
Izzy, Nikki, Bear, Kymberly, Kimmy please someone answer me. @Former-Member
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Hey @Lee82 I can see here you are feeling really scared at present and needing a reply. Whilst I cannot do that for you I can sit here with you - if that will help at all.
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Lee82Senior Contributor
Omg I am freaking out @Zoe7 I don't know what to do.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
There is nothing you can do unfortunately at present @Lee82 given the guidelines of the forum. This is one of the downsides of the connections and friendships we make here and is super hard when that communication is not forthcoming - especially when it has been an indepth and personal connection. The main thing here is that you look after yourself. Are you able to do that tonight?
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Lee82Senior Contributor
There has to be a way. I can't accept that this is where our friendship has to stay. We have become so close and our connection is very strong there has to be something I can do. I way to get to her. It's been an hour I can't handle this. @Zoe7
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Lee82Senior Contributor
Please honey. I can't take this for much longer. Just let me know you are ok. Please @Former-Member
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
From what I can see she has logged off Hon - maybe she has fallen asleep - there is more often than not a reasonable explanation. I have followed along with some of your interactions and it is very clear that you both have a connection here - that emotional attachment can also lead you to think the worst when communication is stopped suddenly. It may however just be nothing more than she needed to sleep. As hard as it is it is really important now that you look after yourself - that way when she does come back you are also okay @Lee82
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Lee82Senior Contributor
Ok @Zoe7
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Are you able to tell me what you are doing for yourself at the moment @Lee82 ? Are you able to keep yourself safe?
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Lee82Senior Contributor
I am safe just hurting beyond comprehension @Zoe7
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