outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Lee82Senior Contributor
You didn't answer my question honey. How you feeling tonight? @Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
Exhausted, useless, pathetic should Inkeep
going😞 maybe I should just go. Sorry my friend @Lee82
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Lee82Senior Contributor
No please don't go honey. Please stay here with. I need you to be here. Talk to me. What's going through your head? Why are you feeling all these things right now?
@Former-Member
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LotusgirlSenior Contributor
@Former-Member they were just being mean. But they have said the hold is fine before but they use it against me knowing I'm so afraid if causing harm just to upset me.
I have had some wins in my case against my rapist btw.
Tell me about you and your work cover situation
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Unknown userMember
Because that is who I am. Everything and everyone at point comes to the same conclusion in the end and when they leave and I am left battered and bruised and alone.
How are you @Lee82
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Unknown userMember
Well they sound like horrible people, they are not being very nice. I am glad you have had some wins with your case, that is fantastic news sweetie.
not much to say really. I have been diagnosed with PTSD after a work place incident last December and for a while workcover hadn't paid me. They do now but it's the return to work that is causing issues at the moment. It actually my return to work Cordinator that is causing the issues at the moment.
@Lotusgirl
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Lee82Senior Contributor
No that is not true. You are none of those things. That is just your demons in your head trying to make you think that way. Your are a beautiful, loving, caring, kind hearted person. The people in your past are not good people and you are better off without them. You deserve better💗
when you are beaten down over and over and over again your brain starts to believe these warped misconceptions of who you are and over time it gets harder and harder to not believe them. That's why you have to fight. You have to fight against them. You have to keep telling yourself they are not true. You have to say it out loud every single day. I AM A GOOD PERSON. I AM STRONG. I CAN BEAT THIS. Everyday babe until you believe it.
Until those demons in Your head are gone and filled with nothing but peace and love.
@Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
How are you feeling @Lee82
You are to kind my love, you just haven't know me long enough to wok it out yet. Who knows because you can't actually see me and we can't communicate anyway other that this my I will get lucky and be able to have you as a friend for a long time.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
@Former-Member, I am a step mum with 4 adults step children
Hello @Lotusgirl , @Lee82 ![]()
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OtterSenior Contributor
@Lee82 @Former-Member
Hey guys, it's been really encouraging and warming to see you both supporting each other so strongly tonight. I just want to add to the mix and say that we at the Forums team and the whole community on the forums here have your back as well. It sounds like its been something of a tough one for both of you. So just wishing you the most sincere upmost care and please don't hesitate to reach out and speak to someone that you can chat to if you need to.
Kindest regards,
Otter
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