rough time

is anyone around atm?

You don't need to write anything back @outlander. Hugs for your long day. Hearing you with that one.

Hope there's some rest in your night

We posted at the same time. I'm around (clearly) but not sure for how long. How are you tonight @outlander?

not really @CheerBear
theres so much stress here atm and everyone is taking their frustrations out on me. sister is arguing with mother because shes being disrespectful and then comes and takes her frustrations out on me.
ill have to talk to her tomorrow but I don't understand why all the pressure seems to be on me when things go wrong but I cant handle all the stress anymore. this was the start of my breakdown last time.
mum was trying to talk to me about travel for the op and couldn't seem to get any answers right either.

thanks @Former-Member posted at the same time. Above post to CB seems to cover it

That's hard @outlander. It seems like you're stuck in the middle of all sorts of stuff from other people.

Can you step away from it at all? Sounds like stepping back and finding some calm inside of you while it is tricky outside could really help right now.

its hard @CheerBear my mother responds to me and so does my sister but them to argue a lot mostly due to my sisters attitude. seems to be a typical teenager thing like not doing housework or the general attitude thing but my mother didn't go through that with me I never went through the teenager attitude resistance years so I guess she doesn't know what to do either.
honestly I feel like sitting them down and saying 'sort your shite out'
the stress is making me feel so sick yet again.
ive tried having a shower and trying to get away from it but I wont be able to put my mind at rest until something is sorted out. its hard because I know its not my responsibility but letting it go and drag on just makes things worse for everyone

What would it be like to ask them to sit down and then to say pretty much that to them @outlander?

I don't know how that would go @CheerBear might be worth speaking to my sister and then having a sit down with them both otherwise I can see them both just getting frustrated and not getting anywhere.