Dialogue with Sane forum Forumites

Whats a BB forum?

Oh @Appleblossom, i thought you meant Beyond Blue Forum

I am good today thankyou @PeppiPatty

after being on the SANE forum since august last year I have leant soo much which has helped me help my Husband who has MI , I have found my confidence back and my Hubby has said he can see the differnce in me which has helped him each day

He still has good days and BAD days , feeling low etc

I thik that I couldnt cope with my situation without Sane Forums.

But how did we get here ?

It shows a real committment to stay online ( I think) and to focus on yourself. I remember when my son first got ill four weeks ago, I could'nt write how I was feeling,

But it would be good if we could ALL say this is what happened to me

These are the steps I take to be strong.

I never thought that a forum could help me get strong.

You must see a lot of hope in your husband ti be doing this. I can see it in my husband but I also have to see my limitations.

I've been thinking these days about stopping making things happen but just let them happen to ME.

All you said @PeppiPatty is very very true

I've been thinking these days about stopping making things happen but just let them happen to ME. --- this happens all the time here , that is why I can`t plan anything , so i have learnt one day at a time being calm and positive which is hard work at times

Oh @Shaz51 staying calm and positive is hard work.

Its one thing to do it online and another to keep it up day in day our irl.

Yes acceptance of life's events is important ... BUT no-one told me to get out of the way of the shower of arrows ... it would have helped me ... not to accept some things too.

Hello @Appleblossom, you are sooo right ,

sometimes I think -- "What about ME " !!!!!!!!

I got my eyebrows waxed today and my eyelashes tinted, It feels GREAT @Shaz51

How are you @Former-Member