CatcakesSenior Contributor
Twisted -self care
Every morning I drive east into the sun.
At traffic lights I put sunscreen on the backs of my hands.
This morning I realised that this is self care,
Very rare for me.
I need to do more of this....
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CatcakesSenior Contributor
Every morning I drive east into the sun.
At traffic lights I put sunscreen on the backs of my hands.
This morning I realised that this is self care,
Very rare for me.
I need to do more of this....
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Phoenix_RisingSenior Contributor
Hi @Catcakes,
I am running on empty a bit at the moment and don't have a lot to give, but I wanted to drop by and say "hi." I'm really sorry to hear that you seem to have the icky I-don't-belong feeling at the moment. I know how super hard that feeling can be. I wish I knew the answer to this muddle, but alas I don't. I too have no sense of belonging anywhere. However, for better or worse, I feel that I am coming to terms with the reality that I actually genuinely don't belong anywhere...and that's ok. Thus it doesn't hurt as much as it used to. I'm not entirely sure if this is a good thing or not, but it is what it is.
Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I hear you and I can relate to the sense of not belonging. I hope the weekend has had some good in it for you. ![]()
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Hi @Catcakes,
This can be found in our Community Guidelines which you can find here. There is also a link to the guidelines in the top right-hand side of forum pages (i.e.: if you scroll up on this page there is a link that says "Community Guideline").
If you have any questions about these, please feel welcome to send us an email at team@saneforums.org and we would be happy to help out ![]()
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