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your feelings about the use and 'misuse' of food in your life...

your feelings about the use and 'misuse' of food in your life...

Hi Everyone,

@Hope4me had the brilliant idea of starting a discussion about our feelings around food.

I thought we could write about how we feel in order to come to terms with it- like, when you are about to tuck into a unhealthy meal of junk food, what's going through your head? Would you like to share?

This is further to the discussion When food replaces love.

My personal issues are with wine, cheese and cake. I use these foods to comfort myself, habitually. I would say it is a type of addiction and it's somehow related to my anxiety. I have done this since childhood.

I have mixed feelings about talking about it.... mainly, I think I don't want to encourage others to feel critical of themselves... I certainly don't believe that you need to be a certain weight to be happy, or that there are 'bad' foods that you must always avoid!

There is nothing wrong with eating cake, if you really do enjoy it and you are not misusing the cake to fill an emotional need.

@Faith-and-Hope, @Shaz51, @TAB, @Owlunar, @Appleblossom, @Phoenix_Rising

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Well Western Star and sugar is in bin now after weighing self.. bread consumption halved, dairy halved. .. just need to get walking 🚶 now

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Just do it @Shaz51 ☕️ 😸

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You work hard so surely you can afford to have a coffee ☕️

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I have just been through an odd month where I was stuffing food in ... like a normal bin-ge eater but there was something more to it ... perhaps grief and anger for all the historical food issues on both sides of ancestry.

Tonight I had a great salad ... fried some rump to go in it for tonight and tomorrow and shared it with my puddy cats ... what a treat for us all.

Mostly with my son away I eat vegetarian ... but I need to use up the stuff in the freezer.

Yeah @TAB... I gotta do more walking

You can do it @Shaz51

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Hmm same re odd ok 2 months here re stuffing food in @Appleblossom

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..no bread butter, sugar in house atm cant eat if dont have it. Am wary of milk and haven't eaten cheese in days. Not having it helps @Appleblossom

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My thoughts exactly @TAB

Its the first time in my life there has been an excess of meat so that it is my duty to chew through it ...

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thanks @Appleblossom

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Yeah, was brought up by 2 parents who lived through war and depression @Appleblossom. It was a crime to leave food on the plate 😀

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It effected so many people for generations ...

and things were tough tough tough before all the ruckus in 20th Century Europe started.

I am gradually processing my ambivalence about having enough now.

Sharing it with the cats was ... me being a GOOD FUN CRAZY CAT lady ...

and remembering my ancestors . .. we do it differently to the Chinese ...

What ever works I say.

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