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Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please

Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please

Got something that's bugging you?

Want to vent, but don't want a response?

Sometimes our minds can get stuck in circles trying to sort out an issue. This can keep you up at night, or make it hard to focus on other things. I find that putting things away, and not thinking about it temporarily can be helpful.

This is the place to get it out, and then give yourself permission to let it go.

Maybe you will need to get back to it some other time, but this is space where you can put it in a place so that you can leave it for some time and (try) not to worry about it in the mean time.

It's a thread where people don't need to reply, it purely just to get it out your worry and concerns.

If you want to show your support for someone, hit the 'like' button. In this thread, 'like' doesn't mean that you 'like' someone's issue, but you support them in letting it out.

So write down your concerns, put it in a vault, shut the door, and allow yourself to walk away from it.

Pls note: If you are reading other people's posts, please respect that they don't want a response. Show your support by 'Liking' their post.

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

@Former-Member

i have been told the same for years...

oh ok I will just click my fingers together and wriggle my nose

now I am just anotherclone

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Why do I fail everyone? Why isn't my love enough? Why is it thrown in my face? Why is my good intentions to help dismissed or disrespected? Why do I bother. I should just disappear from the earth as I am sure no one would notice. Wish I could. And then people wonder why no one cares anymore. Maybe because genuine people who give the all of their heart are sick of feeling unappreciated. So down and tired of it all....

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

Hi @Former-Member

KobeCat here, the overnight moderator.

Sorry things are difficult at the moment. Let me know if I can offer some support options via email

kind regards,. Kobe

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

Thank you @KobeCat for your care,

Feeling the need to withdraw into myself and away from the world (disappearing from the earth). Possibly triggered by Christmas looming and the other reasons I stated above, feeling unappreciated. It can be disheartening and I am feeling flat but I will try and push on. Thanks once again

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

I worry that I came so close to putting so many people through so much pain. I was so stupid and so selfish to only think about myself. I hurt the people I care about the most and for that I hate myself even more now. I don't deserve them. I don't want to put them through that pain and sorrow but still feel they would be better of without me. My emotions and thoughts are so confusing and I feel so lost and alone in this world. I still have all those thoughts and the flashbacks are still there so nothing was achieved at all.

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

Why does everything have to feel so big? It shouldn’t be this hard to just breathe/be.

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

😞

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The tears, the self-doubt, the self-hate, the really big feelings … it’s going to be another great day. 🙁

I worry that I somehow fool people into liking me, and that at some point I will inevitably mess things up and a) I will hurt them, and b) they will see the real me, and then c) they will hate me, and d) they will leave. [And of course if this is as ‘multiple choice’ as it looks, the answer is clearly: e) all of the above.]

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

not really replying except to say i feel exactly the same @Former-Member - hugs

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

...not replying either @Former-Member @Former-Member

but leaving option f) you are liked - enough said

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