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Gratitude

Gratitude

I have decided to start a gratitude 'journal' on here because I want to share the positives too not just when im at the bottom of the barrol and while im not out of that deep dark hole, I want others to share what they are gratiful of as well.

The first thing im grateful for is My work (my second job), after speaking to my boss about the chores that need to be done over next week/s, ive realised just how muhc trust she has in me. Something I never thought someone could be able to truly do when I hardly trust myself.

so a lot of you know who I am and that I have a second job. Some of you may know what a farmhand is while others go huh....

so in light of the people I trusted turning and saying that I need to get a job, I had some free time on my hands today and actually sat down and wrote out what it is that I do and the next time someone times me its not a job Ill be telling them where to shove it.

I dont need to write everything down but will dot point down the roles/responisibilities that I have being a farmhand- or second in charge.

  • There are 2 separate paddocks and they both require fencing checks, which involves on the good days (weather wise) or at least every second day a walk around the entire propert (both of them) checking for any fences that are broken or down and also checking the electric fencing units and noting which ones need batteries replaced. Every other day or on crappy rainy or extremly hot days its a drive anywhere the car is accessable to check the fencing and their units. Im not required to fix the fence unless something minor, as my bosses hubby does the fencing but thats on his days off his proper work/job
  • Check each horse on the property (around 120), not go and check specifically each horse unless noticing something wrong, so just noting them and doing a head count per paddock each paddock check
  • ive been entrusted 4 horses into my care which we call the holiday care as the owners are still required to check their horses at least once a week, with sometimes more during xmas and other special occasions and their associated holidays. Duties for this includes, scrubbing bathtubs (if requested and paid extra for) paddock cleaning (if requested and paid extra for, plus other clients on the properties) feeding and rugging with their general needs being met.
  • Talking to clients and as theirs 120 horses who knows who ill meet in the day however most still go to my boss for their problems.
  • Horse handling. If people require someone to hold their horses for vets, farriers, dentitsts or worming or other services im the first one thats given the chance to do this (extra $)
  • feed orders. Every few weeks I organise a feed truck so have to communicate and write down orders and take cash etc so organise the amounts of each feed for the feed business and let everyone know when the orders will be delivered.
  • When my boss goes away, im first in charge so the background stuff she does comes to me for the amount of time shes away.

So out of all that im very grateful she has put her trust in someone who is young (and who doesnt turst themselves) and has allowed me to grow and learn in this role.

Thank you to everyone who just read all that!!!

will try to get better pics when its not raining!

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Things have been really stressful @Shaz51 but I am grateful to everyone here for listening.

I was doing laps of the park last night before it got dark. There were people walking, people with dogs, and family groups, just such a sense of 'belonging'. Its a beautiful park with lots of greenery and birdlife. It was so peaceful when I sat and watched the sun go down and the dark creep in. The fairy lights came on which reminded me of a Christmas tree.

I am grateful to have the support of team leaders and execs at work.

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Once again I am blessed to have my forum family.

Hubby is home now - on oxygen 24/7 - so I'm grateful that he's well enough to be home. Only time will tell how well enough he is to stay home by himself.

I am blessed to have the support of my execs, team leaders and other special people at work. I have had a few melt downs whilst hubby's been away...people ask me what it is that I need at times like that. Much appreciated.

I am grateful to have my little dog, who has been great company.

And I am eternally grateful for the company of, chats with, and safety and support that I've received from my friend Andrew, who reminds me he is only a phone call away if I need anything. He has always been kind and considerate and gentle, and constantly checks with me that anything he might say doesn't trigger me. He reminds me that he is not going anywhere and he'll always be my "brother." I've never known support like this.

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that is good to hear @NatalieS, how are you and hubby today

what kind of dog do you have xxx

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Good idea @outlander

I havent seen this post before but just read it now. I like it.

I am grateful for
- the safety of this country
- the home life i have
- my piece of mind

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I am grateful for the soothing rain that is pouring with abundance presently ☔️😀

I am ever so grateful for the special love I share with my husband that knows no bounds. His love heals all the hurts bouncing off me as his pure love rights the wrongs done.

I am grateful for the laughter, good times and care of my special friends who grace my life with their presence and making me feel special. 💜❤️💜❤️

I am grateful for all the above gifts enriching my life and give thanks everyday - it's what really matters and is what makes me smile each day. I am so grateful for the good people in my life and in the world as they light up the dark keeping me warm 💗

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What an utterly beautiful post.

I am grateful that I love to cook - this allows me to constantly find ways to spoil the people that I love.

I am grateful that I have my baby sister in my life. She is my friend. Accepts me as I am. I feel good when I'm with her.

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Hi @Former-Member

Those words are so beautiful.

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Hi @Shaz51

Have been offline for a while and am only catching up with some posts now.

Hope you're ok....we've had a bit of rain here but its warming up to a tropical sort of day.

I don't know that hubby's cognitive skills are good. With all his medical conditions-and with him now being on oxygen 24/7-I am concerned for his safety, especially as I work full-time. This morning I sat down with him to verbalise my concerns and outline various care options we can consider...he just gets grumpy with me and wants to blame me for everything that is going on for him, and is terrified that I want to dump him in an aged care facility...I am working on my own mental health issues and am not prepared to sacrifice my own well-being to care for him 24/7. He lashes out at me because I live with him and know him best.

Yesterday three of his sisters visited (they live interstate) and it was a lovely surprise for hubby to catch up with them. Hubby had booked a flight to make his last trip interstate to see his mum. His specialists advise against travelling, so I'm not sure what will happen, he is so stubborn but will do whatever he likes. Apologies for ranting so much!

Gypsy helps calm me down. She is a 13 year old jack russell/maltese cross. We adopted her from the animal welfare league last year. She is a constant in my life. So much of the other stuff going on feels like walking on egg shells.

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I am so grateful for the person I am today and for my independence. I am thankful I pushed through those really dark times and still went after my personal goals and dreams, as although they took time whilst weathering the storm, they now have become a reality and I am so close to the pot of gold.

In my experience relationships are real when face to face for me and I am grateful for that deep genuine bonding.

I am grateful for the real people I connect and bond with each day and activities I enjoy by facing my fears with self belief by getting out into the world. I am grateful I no longer doubt myself and that I like me. My conscience free. I am grateful for living life to the full making the most of it and for the people I meet along the way who enrich it. They are real, they are gold.


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Having gratitude for what is good in my life helps me so much to beat depression and anxiety. Keeping the focus on what is good and precious in my life. I have never been happier and threads like this help me to keep that healing positive attitude that keeps me rising above the obstacles that may present itself. I am grateful for this thread!!

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