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Gratitude

Gratitude

I have decided to start a gratitude 'journal' on here because I want to share the positives too not just when im at the bottom of the barrol and while im not out of that deep dark hole, I want others to share what they are gratiful of as well.

The first thing im grateful for is My work (my second job), after speaking to my boss about the chores that need to be done over next week/s, ive realised just how muhc trust she has in me. Something I never thought someone could be able to truly do when I hardly trust myself.

so a lot of you know who I am and that I have a second job. Some of you may know what a farmhand is while others go huh....

so in light of the people I trusted turning and saying that I need to get a job, I had some free time on my hands today and actually sat down and wrote out what it is that I do and the next time someone times me its not a job Ill be telling them where to shove it.

I dont need to write everything down but will dot point down the roles/responisibilities that I have being a farmhand- or second in charge.

  • There are 2 separate paddocks and they both require fencing checks, which involves on the good days (weather wise) or at least every second day a walk around the entire propert (both of them) checking for any fences that are broken or down and also checking the electric fencing units and noting which ones need batteries replaced. Every other day or on crappy rainy or extremly hot days its a drive anywhere the car is accessable to check the fencing and their units. Im not required to fix the fence unless something minor, as my bosses hubby does the fencing but thats on his days off his proper work/job
  • Check each horse on the property (around 120), not go and check specifically each horse unless noticing something wrong, so just noting them and doing a head count per paddock each paddock check
  • ive been entrusted 4 horses into my care which we call the holiday care as the owners are still required to check their horses at least once a week, with sometimes more during xmas and other special occasions and their associated holidays. Duties for this includes, scrubbing bathtubs (if requested and paid extra for) paddock cleaning (if requested and paid extra for, plus other clients on the properties) feeding and rugging with their general needs being met.
  • Talking to clients and as theirs 120 horses who knows who ill meet in the day however most still go to my boss for their problems.
  • Horse handling. If people require someone to hold their horses for vets, farriers, dentitsts or worming or other services im the first one thats given the chance to do this (extra $)
  • feed orders. Every few weeks I organise a feed truck so have to communicate and write down orders and take cash etc so organise the amounts of each feed for the feed business and let everyone know when the orders will be delivered.
  • When my boss goes away, im first in charge so the background stuff she does comes to me for the amount of time shes away.

So out of all that im very grateful she has put her trust in someone who is young (and who doesnt turst themselves) and has allowed me to grow and learn in this role.

Thank you to everyone who just read all that!!!

will try to get better pics when its not raining!

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I have the time to sleep and rest on days of exhaustion, that is good my scotirish sister @Mazarita, also to listen to our bodies and to rest , I need to do more listening than pushing myself

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Hi @Shaz51 - I am grateful for the days (like today) when my mind and brain align enough to allow me to do complex tasks involving thought and logic. Not always possible but when it is I am really happy.

Hi everyone!

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when my mind and brain align enough -- it is good aye my sister @MoonGal

I know what you mean and Mr shaz says sometimes I need something to help me at times

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Hi all - got lots to be grateful for

I am grateful that my mix of meds is really helping me (not missing the hallucinations one little bit).

I am grateful that i have a wonderful, supportive bunch of doctors supporting me. They work with me as though they are good friends and have a genuine care for me.

I am grateful that i have a home to go to and that i live with my best friend.

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That is sooo good to remember @Delicatessen

I am glad to hear your mix of meds is really helping you my friend , it really makes a difference xx

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Thanks for the tag @Shaz51

Today I'm grateful for:

- Cooler weather and a bit of much needed rain

- My husband's Oncology team who are always there for me to talk to when I need them

- That I am managing (so far) to hold things together personally, despite a lot of highly stressful stuff going on lately

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Hi @Former-Member,

You reminded me that today (and yesterday) I am also grateful for cooler weather. It is such a relief!

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that is good @Former-Member , it is good having the support , sending you hugs

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I'm grateful I haven't had to go to hospital. The support from my case manage has been great.

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I am grateful my daughter has found a partner that is helping and standing by her the best he can through a difficult period right now - an answer to a prayer

I am grateful how close we have become and how we grow closer by the day

I am grateful for the undying love of my husband and close friends

I am grateful for my hobbies and interest that give me so much reprieve and joy

I am grateful that I have back my fervour for living ❤️

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