outlanderSenior Contributor
I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
I dont know how much longer i can keep going on like this anymore. I feel completely defeated right about now
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I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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It is re above msg @Sans911
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Unknown userMember
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@outlanderI am sure when you said yes to your sister about the horse show that you were not this sick and didn't have this much pain. Things happen and no one can control things sometimes. Yes she might be a bit upset, but kids get over things very quickly. Just tell her that when you feel better you will take her on an outing one day somewhere else. I am sure she will be happy with that.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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no i wasnt sick. I didnt even have pain then @Former-Member i dont know if i can let them down even the little one is excited. I dont think i can. I dont want to ruin everything like usual. Ill see how i go of i can hold steady i might be able to go abit but after i moved then im not so sure. I had a shower at least. I couldnt really manage it yesterday.
If i cancel tomorrow itll be the third time ive said yes than havent gone. I was hoping the rain would save me but its not going to rain now.
I went to take pain relief earlier and i had to walk away as i had the double dose out and was so very tempted so thought id have a shower first before acting on it. I still cant go near them yet. Its not safe enough. And i can hear both you and @Sans911 in the background telling me not to (as in no go over) so im siding with you lot atm
If i cancel tomorrow itll be the third time ive said yes than havent gone. I was hoping the rain would save me but its not going to rain now.
I went to take pain relief earlier and i had to walk away as i had the double dose out and was so very tempted so thought id have a shower first before acting on it. I still cant go near them yet. Its not safe enough. And i can hear both you and @Sans911 in the background telling me not to (as in no go over) so im siding with you lot atm
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I'm ok @Sans911,@outlander and 🍯 honey bear @TAB, I just got on here and the bloke turned up to finish taking shrubs out,just when I had sat down.Did a 15 km walk last night after a sleep (struggled),and struggled to do 12 this morning,weak legs and muscles and bit breathless from iron,took a iron tablet tonight to get through til Wednesday when I have another iron infusion.Yes my family situation is not good as I don't want nothing to do with them.I lived in flight mode for a long time,a factor that contributed to my anxiety eg:if they come to the house,I have to not be there.I do talk to people when I go shopping, but have to avoid many due to triggers, and don't shop in the town I'm in due to my deep hatred for many who contributed to me leaving the workplace 6 years ago,and my shame over my failings.
As for a wedding,@Sans911, @outlander, I will leave that to you guys .👤
As for a wedding,@Sans911, @outlander, I will leave that to you guys .👤
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@outlander hun I know you don’t want to let them down but you need to put yourself first. I understand hun, the amount of times lately that I have let my kids down weighs on me heavily, but if I don’t put myself first than I wouldn’t be here at all for them. So maybe to be there for them in the long run, you need to think about yourself and only yourself in the short term. I hope that makes sense.
i am glad you have got Sans and myself telling you to walk away.
i am logging off for a bit to feed the kiddies, will be back soon. ❤️❤️❤️
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Even mums telling me not to go. Damn damn damn it! I already missed the bloody art exhibition today. 😞
I cant go tomorrow. I know it cant. I hate dissapointing people. They are going to hate me
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@Former-Member im not surprised your struggling with iron deficiency and being weaker tham usual. Hope those workers were good looking!
I cant go tomorrow. I know it cant. I hate dissapointing people. They are going to hate me
@Former-Member @Former-Member
@Former-Member im not surprised your struggling with iron deficiency and being weaker tham usual. Hope those workers were good looking!
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander but this time you are sick 🤒 my angel.
And I'm SUPER SUPER PROUD of YOU. 💕 💕 💕 💕
Why don't you say to your sisters that you're pretty sick, but if you are a little better you will do your best to take them; even just for a while. Don't make any promises.
And you're not ruining everything @outlander. You are doing the best you can right now. And that is enough, ok?
And I'm SUPER SUPER PROUD of YOU. 💕 💕 💕 💕
Why don't you say to your sisters that you're pretty sick, but if you are a little better you will do your best to take them; even just for a while. Don't make any promises.
And you're not ruining everything @outlander. You are doing the best you can right now. And that is enough, ok?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I just told them i cant go sis. It broke my heart @Sans911 they seemed to take it ok.
Iknow i hate being sick. Its not very convenient at all. I can feel the fever coming up so i need to take pain relief soon. But i cant do it yet. I walk in and start shaking so I walk back out.
There really iant anything to be proud of and my enough just never seems enough but thank my sis
Iknow i hate being sick. Its not very convenient at all. I can feel the fever coming up so i need to take pain relief soon. But i cant do it yet. I walk in and start shaking so I walk back out.
There really iant anything to be proud of and my enough just never seems enough but thank my sis
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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Hahahahahahah! @TAB I love you too TABs I think you are very funny as well 😄
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander wow your mother is siding with you. That's nice. There will be other things to go to, other good times that you will enjoy thoroughly.
Young kids are pretty resilient. They won't remember this in a few months as something better will come along
Young kids are pretty resilient. They won't remember this in a few months as something better will come along
