outlanderSenior Contributor
I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
I dont know how much longer i can keep going on like this anymore. I feel completely defeated right about now
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I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
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Unknown userMember
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@outlandersad to miss out on the horse show however you don't want to make yourself worse. Sounds like your body is telling you that it needs rest.
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member Yes I can hear it in your voice. I am so sorry NellBell ... it is exhausting.... but isn't it great that he goes with you. What a wonderful supportin husband you have got. 🙂
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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i need to log off for abit @Former-Member@Sans911 ill come back on when i can handle things abit better. im about to move and i know the result of it so will logg off now
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Unknown userMember
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@outlandertake care hun
@Bunniekinsyes I am lucky that he has been supportive
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member shows how much he loves you. That is really wonderful in this day and age 
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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Oh wow @Bunniekins
It seems you have had a make-over and it does look good - I like that
And @outlander
A kidney infection is a big deal and if you have found the comfy spot stay there as long as possible
I have a couple of ideas about how you got a kidney infection - and I think someone else got near to it - I think that when you got your period you lost a massive amount of fluid and this might have over-loaded the kidney
So saying that - yes - it is the time for self-care and you are beginning to see you need that - and hopefully you will get better at it
And about your sisters being bored at home when you are supposed to be caring for them - my parents certainly took us out and gave us equipment to work with - a lot of our time was engaged with chores. If you are looking after the kids when you are ill it's enough that you are in charge and if they become bored they will certainly find ways of entertaining themselves if left to it
If I complained about being bored I was told to practise the piano - and I will be doing that in a moment for pleasure - okay - you need a piano and know a bit about playing it to try that one but as irritable as I could be when told that as a kid I am really glad about it now
There are lots of worse things that kids experience rather than feeling bored
Anyway - take life as easy as possible - catch up with yourself
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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Thank you @Owlunar I am studying atm for exams so it is a serious pea face I have on
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thanks @Former-Member i havent moved yet. Im too scared to and my midde sister walked in all chirpy and started asking about the horse show tomorrow. Shes been looking forward to it to and i said id take her. I managed a smile and said maybe and iff ahe went. How the heck am i going to tell her i cant. I cant move without pain how am i suppose to drive. Tears are coming again 😞
@Owlunar
I didn't realise how big of a deal a stupid kidney infection is. Apparently it is. I need to get up but i cant. Im avoiding it and ive gone and upset myself yet again for knowing i promised to take them and i doubt ill be able to go. 😞
Thats a high possibility thats the reason. I hope not esp since this is a long term thing. If the middl one complains they are bored i tell her to do the dishes. Changes her mind quick but thr youngest one is only 7 and i mean shes a good kid but i cant be 10 different people all at once.
I can play abit of piano. I played it through school but stopped when i left. Im glad you still enjoy it though..
Anyway i really must get up now. Damn it
@Owlunar
I didn't realise how big of a deal a stupid kidney infection is. Apparently it is. I need to get up but i cant. Im avoiding it and ive gone and upset myself yet again for knowing i promised to take them and i doubt ill be able to go. 😞
Thats a high possibility thats the reason. I hope not esp since this is a long term thing. If the middl one complains they are bored i tell her to do the dishes. Changes her mind quick but thr youngest one is only 7 and i mean shes a good kid but i cant be 10 different people all at once.
I can play abit of piano. I played it through school but stopped when i left. Im glad you still enjoy it though..
Anyway i really must get up now. Damn it
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Im wrecking everything 😞 im ruining everyone's lives. What is wrong with me 😞
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander - I'm sure that is not the case
