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Night Shift

Night Shift

Since I am awake at 4am I thought I'd start this thread for those of us who have trouble sleeping and might find it helpful to have a place to go to chat. Whatever gets you through the night is alright.

To get the ball rolling, I'll just say that I enjoyed being part of the Topic Tuesday discussion tonight. I wish it was possible for these events to be weekly rather than monthly. Either way, thanks SANE and all the people I've met on here over recent months.

Edited June 2016 and February 2017: Night Shift is now open 24 hours a day. To join in, just click through to the last page of the thread at the top right of this post to get to the latest message.

Edited April 2017 and June 2017: For the sake of better communications between members here, I am adding that this thread is meant to be a caring, kind and gentle place of sharing. Humour is welcome, as long as its not unkindly directed towards other members. Hope your time in this chat thread is rewarding.

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Mis tagged you again @Faith-and-Hope. Sorry. I have to type them all out when I'm on my phone. Anyway I had better go. I have to have a shower (first one in days), get back to old house, go to counselling appointment then back to old house before I pick my son up. I think I should have called yesterday SANE Sunday because I think I spent most of my day on here😜😀

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Surprise fact: I'm a Canadian aboriginal. 😄

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Yay !! I think that's beautiful. I think of First People as being in tune with the natural elements of their country, and Canada is soooooo picturesque !!

Do you feel comfortable sharing Canadian Aboriginal language with us @Snuchu ?

How to say hello perhaps ?

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I can't really remember, but kleco stood for something, possibly welcome.

I'm only 1/4 aboriginal and my dad knows the language better than I do.

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@Faith-and-Hope@Mazarita

Police!! Wow - the Thin Blue Line in my family is so wide no one can find their way out of it - but I find the real police easy to get on with

But The Sleep Police and the Food Police - and others - are medically trained - but I like the way @Faith-and-Hope wrote it - we have to live - not just within the mores of our society - but our own rhythm - and find what ever that is

Of course we have the Politically Correct Police and the Dress Code Police and the How to Behave in Public Police - so I can start my own thread with the police I guess

However - with my husband not being a good provider and my disasification with being a home maker - I did the basics - had a clean house and cooked and did everything like washing and ironing - basic as - and went to work part-time at weekends and nights a lot of the time - pretty much a stay-at-home Mum - but I had to work at times - I went and did my HSC and then to University where I found life to be wonderful - and then of course - I had to study.

But when I could I got a full-time job - and this meant waking up early to study - being at a job that allowed me time off to go to the University - and did the washing before work, usually went out to tutor my private students after dinner and did my assignments in between all this of when I had time (often) late at night - while I paid my daughter to do some ironing and vacuuming - and I cooked most of Saturday - put a roast in the oven and told my husband I would spit in his gravy if he didn't put the vegies in when the bell went off (I don't remember if I ever did) and slept for as long as it took to cook a roast dinner

I have to say that when I slept I slept well - I could say I felt fulfilled

But when I injured my spine this wonderful life-style ceased - I had my degrees before all of this happened but I was studying at TAFE to teach ESL then - and teaching still - and the abrupt change of work, study, sleep and putting up with chronic pain really cursed my life - but somehow I have learned to live within that - not happy - but reasonable

So - as we can listen to the Sleep Police - I don't know if they factor in what we have to do with our lives as well as sleep - what about doctors, young mothers, ship-wrecked mariners - shift workers - hah - the real police, paramedics, nurses, aircrews - and we are told to give our best to our families too - and that clock keeps going and going and going and if people want to better their circumstances they need to do some study

Wow

Okay - let's look at ourselves and ask what we are achieving. I burnt the candle at both ends and I had not heard of the Sleep Police - but there were years when my father's shift work had the whole family tip-toeing while Dad slept and studied

We are who we are - imo - we sleep when we can - and it might help some people to sleep in a pattern - not me - I sleep when I can -

But there are things we can do to try and regulate ourselves I guess - mine - I fall asleep watching TV - it's amazing how different a movie I know well can be different when I start to dream

So - I am not putting the Sleep Police down at all - just thinking - we need to be our own police - after all - imagine leaving a great party to get to sleep at 10.30pm.

No way

This is me getting ready to take a walk on a lovely afternoon

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Thank you very, very much kind moderators. Much appreciated! Hi @Mazarita, hope you enjoyed your cooking lesson. Like you, my cooking skills are poor, but at least you are making the effort to improve yours. You must share some recipes. Hi @Former-Member, hope your day was a productive one, I hope you got lots done. Wish I could give you a hand. Sending best wishes to all on this marvellous website.

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Hi @comet. I hope your day is going well. Sorry for the question earlier. As soon as I hit post I realised it was a bit personal. If I had received it I would have responded with "not much". Anyway thanks for thinking of me. My day is not going to plan but it never does so nothing is new. I hope your cat is giving you plenty of cuddles and you are staying dry (if your somewhere wet which much of Australia seems to be) 😊💜

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I also wanted to add @comet since I wrote that don't worry about typos I've been madly correcting myself everywhere so I'm not sure my advice is helpful unless I stick to it as well. Ahh the irony😊

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Hi @comet. Hi @Former-Member. 🙂

I hope your days, planned or otherwise, are going well. Sending happy vibes your way...

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