Night Shift

Hello @Former-Member

sending you hugs, hope you are ok

it is great to see you xx

Hi @PeppiPatty

I held off replying to your post, because this is unfamiliar territory for me, and I felt that both @eth and @Mazarita would know better how to respond, and they both have.

I agree that none of us, or anybody here, can really diagnose what is causing you to experience shaking and trembling. I would have suggested mentioning it to your GP, but if you are seeing other specialists, perhaps they can advise you who you should follow through with.

Yes, it is very concerning that anybody would be yelling at you to hang the washing at 11pm, unless the house is big and they are just yelling so you can hear them across distance, and if perhaps someone's uniform needed hanging out to be dry for school or work tomorrow and you needed reminding because you offered to do it already, but that is a very different situation from someone yelling aggressively, or demanding that you hang washing.

You have said at the same time that you "love your gorgeous husband" and you are "very adored", which is what made me think the yelling wasn't intended to be aggressive and demanding or controlling.

If you are experiencing relationships that are unstable, that swing between seeming loving and supportive one minute, then become aggressive, demanding and controlling the next, I think you need to speak up to your health professionals about that, and as soon as you can. It can be very confusing, but at the same time, you know in your heart that it's not right and you need someone to help you.

If that is what you are experiencing, please try to say it a bit more clearly, and we can find numbers for you to call to speak to someone for support, and they can help you work out how to change your situation.

Keep talking to us @PeppiPatty, and telling us how you are ❤️

Good on you @Jacques

@Hard, yes, but good for the soul ❤️

Yes It is hard helping people but it is rewarding @Jacques

That is not something you should be trying to do on your own @Jacques. By all means, help them to keep treading water, but you need to get professional support involved through -

Lifeline 13 11 14

or 000 if it becomes an emergency

Hi @Jacques I was recently in the same situation you are in and learned that we can only do so much for someone else feeling that way. We can be there unconditionally but we have to take care of ourselves at the same time. Take care. Sending you strength. I agree that it is important to have someone like Lifeline involved. You can talk to them about how the situation is for you too.