Night Shift

Hi @Shaz51 and all the forumites 🙂

Wow, four of my great grandparents come from Denmark, From the Odens reigon gosh go back far enough we probably are related 😄

I have never been it looks so beautiful in the pictures.

How is Hubby going? how are you?

sorry i have not been on much, i wish i could be on here more.

take care all

Jacques

Hello @Jacques

we are ok , thank you fro asking

yes we could be related

all I know is that he said on the certificate that he was from Fredrickshaven , where ever that is ???

He did put his parents names that i can not find

Hi @PeppiPatty, I hear you about how tired you feel all the time. I also relate to having unusual levels of tiredness since childhood, probably trauma and anxiety induced. I think in the anxiety topic discussion that was on the other night there was some discussion about how anxiety can induce depression through a kind of 'burn out'. Sounds like there is so much going on around you, with husband, son, work, that you are burning through whatever energy reserves you may have had when you were living alone and had more time to focus on your own needs. I agree with @eth that it's totally out of line for your husband to yell at you to get the washing out on the line at 11pm or anytime really. In my view, that is basically a form of abuse. i wonder are you really okay in that situation. Is the decision to work again in your best interests at this time? I hope the psychotherapist is worth it when there may be alternatives to seeing her, like seeing a psychologist with little or no 'gap' payment on a mental health care plan, and/or a psychiatrist who bulk bills. Personally I think it sounds like you may have more than can be be handled on your plate. But I'm saying this as someone who is just interpreting things from what you write on the screen, not from first hand knowledge. And I know that life is more complicated than our ideas of it very often. Whatever happens, dear friend, I'm sending you hugs and support.

Hi @Former-Member, sending you hugs too for what you are going through.

yes and Family Tree search as well @Jacques

there are lots of family stories that i wonder which on is really true

How are you tonight @Jacques

Ohhhhhh @Silenus, now I want to go there xx

my mum went to copenhaven, I think that what it was called

Sending you hugs and hope you are ok