@PeppiPatty
I have noticed that you are not posting or lurking as much as you used to. I wasnt worried but noticed, one eye up watching for you kind of thing?? Tell us what happened if you are ready.
Thanks for gut comment about moving house. I am not making decision quickly. I also think son is a bit rigid in his belief about things and just want to show him as many options as possible.
@Shaz51 Thanks for asking about mah booii .. He is doing well at the moment .. still no flare ups .. and I am gently pushing to get him more active and house trained. He is growing more gorgeous ... day by day. Nothing secure but mostly good.
I like this new lady ... she is out in her gumboots gardening for an hour and then off to the hairdresser .. she is older .. and has a cheery and a calming vibe.
I had another new weird coincidence thing. ,, a fellow who walked by .. new face .. said he had just moved in .. hello etc.. I told him I just pottered in the court .. he said, are you ..."my name?" He knew a person I who I got on with had told him I lived there .. so that new resident thing started off really well too .. Maybe change around me and not me doing all the heavy lifting will be good. Thanks for saying that. It would be good for my energy to be used to grow a life and not go through setting up the practical stuff again.
I just dont know how much is enough or too little or what to take for granted.
I am not super anxious about the girl .. just a bit .. I think we are all coming from a goodwill place .. but our flare up in January was scary for us all .. we have processed it a little .. which is good.
About playing the piano .. I was playing about 1 hour per day when son started to be interested in music and he is just too intense and gung ho .. not like me at all
so I ended up shifting focus to him .. now I might play piano music .. about 1/2 hour per week .. tho do other stuff, singing, accompanying or teaching. I have been doing heaps of music out of the house so that has been good .. feel like a greedy cat who got all the cream .. I have been lucky to be in some utterly fabulous events .. so just have to bring up a memory of them when I hit a dark place.
@Former-Member its about the long haul .. white goods come and go .. you are doing a great job. Of course women are better than machines. Go girl.
Take care all