Night Shift

@PeppiPatty, sending you hugs. It sounds sinister, scary and no wonder you feel surreal. I hope the appointment with Headspace is very soon. You did the right thing taking your son there. In the meantime I am hoping you can remember to breathe deep and even sometimes. It might help when you feel yourself too upset or thoughts racing. How awful it sounds. Hug again.

Im going to call him and just say to him that he's always welcome here.

And his statement is safe here.

I better go to bed and first of all........might make up something yummy to eat like .bacon

xx

Goodnight, @PeppiPatty. Hope you feel rested in the morning and that you enjoy your late night supper.

goodnight my @PeppiPatty, sorry I came sooo late tonight , have a good night sleep

People...ladies....friends.....thank you.....

How do I get the red hearts?

lo lonly being silly @Shaz51

Thanks everyone. I sent a message to my son's best friends fahter to have a coffee with him.....

hey hey @PeppiPatty see the smile face above , click it and you will see the red heart at the end

Dear @PeppiPatty, hope you had an okay night's sleep and are feeling a bit better this morning. What a confusing time it is with what your son has said. If the memory is real there is help at Headspace for him. The same if the thought is something that has arisen due to mind altering substances. I really feel for you having to go through this in your own mind and hope you can get some peace from it.

Dear @Shaz51, hope you and hubby have a great day today!

Dear @Mazarita Im trying to do @Shaz51 heart message how to do the red heart message....

Thanks, thatk you for pinpionting where I am @Mazarita

I've told him, when he turned up.we didnt want any rent or paying of bills but we wanted him just to be responsible. He went out and bought us a huge grocery shop....good man, good man......

I'm feelng just so devestated, this sexual abuse is ...oh so confronting. I'm very very pleased that he made an appiontment at head space.

My Mum rang me this morning, he was fishing for info.....wow, I feel like she takes my ideas and acts on them straight away.

It's none of my business to tell her anything that he has said but I tell her that it

Isnt too stressful to have him in my life.

He is going well.

There is nothing I can do...I need to take my own advice and just be myself. I can give advice but I must act on my own advice as well.

Hi @PeppiPatty,

I am os proud of the way you are handling this, it is very traumatic for him i know from personal abuse it had devistating impact on our lives. i am glad he is seeking professional help and i am so glad you are supporting him. what a wonderful man doing some shopping.

It is not your fault what happened @PeppiPatty, the past is the past, their is nothing you can do now to stop what was done, you need to focus on now and the future and getting him the best treatment possible and helping him rebuild his life.

Hugs @PeppiPatty, my thoughts and well wishes are with you and your son.

Jacques