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Night Shift

Night Shift

Since I am awake at 4am I thought I'd start this thread for those of us who have trouble sleeping and might find it helpful to have a place to go to chat. Whatever gets you through the night is alright.

To get the ball rolling, I'll just say that I enjoyed being part of the Topic Tuesday discussion tonight. I wish it was possible for these events to be weekly rather than monthly. Either way, thanks SANE and all the people I've met on here over recent months.

Edited June 2016 and February 2017: Night Shift is now open 24 hours a day. To join in, just click through to the last page of the thread at the top right of this post to get to the latest message.

Edited April 2017 and June 2017: For the sake of better communications between members here, I am adding that this thread is meant to be a caring, kind and gentle place of sharing. Humour is welcome, as long as its not unkindly directed towards other members. Hope your time in this chat thread is rewarding.

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Morning @Former-Member...ah yes I know that feeling my first was a small feeder, woke often...still demands!! I like magnesium supplement too. The last few days I've started evening primrose oil, it helps a little. Must be my own imbalance. It's very fine tuning isn't it. It's all good & well to see someone but gets costly & then I can't justify the means when I've got everyone to care for too. I read a bit on health having had to navigate it with food intolerance. A friend recommend's different things too. Her son has autism, & she is very into natural alternatives, keeping fit. I like talking to people that keep active, they have that 'need to move' thing going on, that I do. Well I hope to share some other thought later.🌼...it's a finer day. Initially it shell shocks me, the brightness, then I adjust. Some days though I fine summer or bright weather so in my face, the world too much. I was an outside child, hated afternoon sleeps from memory. Mum used to let me fall asleep on floor because I'd fight it, until I couldn't anymore!!!! Lol

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Hi @Former-Member @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope @Appleblossom

Yes - I am getting my hair cut this afternoon and I love having a shampoo done by someone else - with their fingers getting into my scalp - and no yet on the computer - yesterday was sunny and wonderful - and I spent the day catching up on tasks - and then in the afternoon the weather turned cloudy and the barometric pressure changed suddenly - I had a weird feeling of discomfort that comes with barometric changes - very uneasy - so I only went as far as the shops and felt intensely annoyed when the person ahead of me in a queue held up everyone else asking a long list of questions of the pharmacist - I decided - not today and went home and went to sleep - not programmed in but necessary

And I still have to organise a globe in my kitchen - I never think of it during the day and of course - at night I need it - darn - I have to get the handyman in for that - falling backwards off a chair is not required

What ever people call their periods I do have a suggestion I offer young women and they are surprised but you can try this - it might work for you but can't hurt

When I was a teenager I worked in a company that had a nurse and she had a little room off her office with three small beds in it - and there would be a parade of girls going their and having a mixture containing ginger - and it seemed to help - along with lying down with hot water bottles on our tummies and under our feet - except for a few years when I ran 28 days to Thursday afternoons on the dot I got onto a bad place where nothing helped and I had a hysterectomy - so after all these years I forget until a younger woman tells me she has her period - and I remember

It doesn't last forever girls - but haven't we all had those moments when we are so glad to see it!!!

What else - having work done in our domain - I will have to have this place painted soon - of course as it's Government Housing it will be in their time - but I don't like the thought of paint fumes at all - so I am not in a hurry - I had carpet put down in the lounge last year - and moving everything out of the lounge except the heavy things took ages - I have a large wall unit full of treasures and the cupboards are full of books and there are collections and crystal and DVDs and nothing in here is not something useful or keep sakes - but moving it into another room took me late into the night - and then these men turned up early and did the job quickly I have to say - and I took my time putting it all back -

I don't hoard but I am looking forward to the hard rubbish collection - I always ditch stuff then - I don't have a very large place here - 3.5 rooms - big enough for me though

What else - babies that don't sleep - okay - that's a toughie - dd was an easy and sociable baby - but wanted to see everything that happened. I would move the bassinet around the house as I worked - esp in the kitchen - but with such a baby we all have to grab sleep when we can - it depends on the baby of course - babies who cry when they are awake - I have that with my son - that is hard work - but then he would sleep for hours from exhaustion after all that crying -

But what do you do???? I can hear that all these years later - I don't know - I would put both my kids on the pram and walk for miles around here - I know every short cut and every hill - I wore the tyres off the pram - I was so fit - wow

I don't know what to do with babies who cry when they have been fed and enterained and there is nothing else they need - except put them in the pram and walk and walk and walk - even if it just around the house in bad weather - this must be a universal and long term problem

I'm raving - time to stop - back to my own this-day salt mine

Decadian

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Just want to say "Hi" to you all. I read your messages, thanks, @Former-Member and @Decadian.

Hopefully I'll feel like chatting more later. I'm feeling very emotional and exhausted today. Have to head out now.

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❤🌼@Bridget.

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❤🌷 @Former-Member

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Hello @Faith-and-Hope, @Mazarita, @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @Decadian

how is everyone ??

@Faith-and-Hope, how is D3 today xx

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Hello @Former-Member, @Former-Member

I'm trying Melatonin at the moment too @leia. -- they didn`t work here too , we don`t buy any more

I think the Magnesium powder is better, -- it does help most of the time xx

Hello @Mazarita, @Decadian, @Jacques, @Appleblossom, @plasmo, @Former-Member, @MoonGal xx

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Hello again. It's really raining at the moment. I got my shopping done and bought some presents for my husband's birthday tomorrow, plus some goodies and cake. Now I need to look for a pumpkin soup recipe for dinner.

Had an awful nightmare again approx 3am this morning. Someone was after me, I dream it quite often. I have to get up out of bed, otherwise I just go back into the dream again.

I was an outdoor child as well @Former-Member, always looking for action. Easily distracted and would disappear and worry my mother often. I have great memories from before I was a teenager, but after that, not good at all.

Did your hairdresser give you a nice hair cut @Decadian?

Hi @Shaz51. How has your day been? Do you work every day?

Do you have to do alot of cooking/baking for your son's 21st @Faith-and-Hope? What sort of fancy dress costume are you wearing? I would love to have a fancy dress party. I will, when I feel better.

How is everyone else today? Are you ok @Former-Member @Former-Member and @Former-Member? How did your appointment go today @Former-Member?

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@Shaz51, hello, I was travelling well to pick my son up who was horrid. It's a frustrating situation, that I'm continually dealing. Some days are really combing each fine hair I feel. But enough of me, how are you traveling? Hope the people in your life are being kind to you 😊

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I'm sorry to hear that @Former-Member...that's nasty to have such a recurring dream. Recently my psychologist suggested the next time I dreamt such a dream, that I alter the ending...taking my power back so to speak. I thought sn interesting concept, but I wonder how easy that is?...yes I could relate, I think I was mostly a happy carefree child. I didn't like being a teenager, it has caused me sadness when others have had a much different story. I really find that hard in my personal relationships. It's more a very lonely road...I hope you have a much more pleasant sleep tonight...you are a kind, giving person. Such dreams really hurt. I'm sorry it was hard for you today. Big hugs. My thoughts are with you.❤
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