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KurraSenior Contributor
I'm in big do do and thinking stupid exit plans. No worries. These are thoughts only. I'm not planning any action on these thoughts. I'm terrified that I'm going to end up homeless again. Any support would be very welcime @Faith-and-Hope @Teej @Appleblossom @Shaz51 @Mazarita @Former-Member @Former-Member and anyone else who cares about me.
I'm si afraid....... Luv n Hugzzz to all 💕
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Thank you @Former-Member .....
Lots of stuff is breaking down at our house at the moment ..... adding to the chaos here. Last month it was the fridge. Yesterday it was an aircon unit. Having phone issues .....
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
It’s stressing WH out because it’s messing with his regimen ...... but maybe that’s part of what has to get through to him ..... that if the whole day is planned, start to finish, then there is no room for the rest of what makes up life to happen in there too
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Oops ... face-planted there for an hour .....
I think that’s how it works @Former-Member .... that a set of circumstances has lead to this, and another set of circumstances can cause him to “wake up” ....
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Towards the end of his life my successful business brother started to reflect about the issue of being in control. There is a lot of pressure on men to do all the planning, figure the costs & benefits, foot the bill, manage risk etc etc ... and YES it matters and doing that stuff can work a lot of the time ...
but not all can be sorted all the time
life does pop up
outside of our control
Yes allowing leeway helps.
Just saying hello @Faith-and-Hope 
I remember the last time @Former-Member... dont make stuff like they used to.
I still have to organise my timing belt for the car. There's always something ... I finally have an oven but not going to use it for myself. I have worked a lot on my SI since we first spoke ovens.
Hope you are doing alright @Kurra @Sans911 @Teej @Shaz51
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