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BUBBLES WORLD :)

BUBBLES WORLD :)

me in my little world

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I am sorry to read you are feeling so low @Bubbles3. I could sit with you for a while if you like?

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yes please @Queenie

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its impossible it get this done around the house @Queenie......when my head is full of sh*t. i cant get it out. i feel so hurt by what my family has done

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im not feeling well. im feeling physically sick just thinking about it all

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Hey hun @Bubbles3 I am so sorry that you are feeling like this now, I am assuming it is becasue fo your mother?

But you do have family, you have a husband that seems to support you and stick by your side and you have 3 beautiful children that love and adore you as their mother. And of course your pets!!

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i know @Former-Member

its just hard. and it hurts. the one person who shouldnt turn there back on you...... do it.

i know i have hubby and the kids. my poor hubby gets stressed out so much by me , not even he knows what to do sometimes. maybe i should have no one, may be i shouldnt be here then no one has to worry or care about me

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@Bubbles3

I am sorry that it hurts you so much, and you are right, she is the one person who shouldn't turn their back on you. @Bubbles3 even if you are not here, do you really think your husband and kids will stop caring about you? I don't think so. They are the exact reason why you have to keep going. My hubby nad my kids are the only thing that is keeping me going atm.

Can you do something nice for yourself today? Have a relax outside, have a bath, make yourself something nice to eat, something just for yourself.

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Hey dear @Bubbles3,

I used to be verbally abused by my mother occasionally and then she would be fine, but I could never trust her. Trust is earnt. But one thing that helped is talking to a Lifeline Counsellor on 131114. And they told me I was being too passive with my mother and taught me to be more assertive with her. Also I was taught to put healthy boundaries in place with my mother. If you are tired tell her that you have scones in the oven and you cannot talk right now, that can help take back your personal power and your control back in the situation. I had to move miles and several hours away from my mother with my hubby. We just found she was too controlling, and quarrelsome and into fault-finding and we did not want to be around her negativity or around quarrelsome people. We wanted peace and I have peace now. I may be a LoneRanger, but at least I have my peace of mind and sanity staying away from quarrelsome family. It is true we can choose our friends but not our family. And mark my words some family can be bad.

''Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flows the issues of life''Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. English Standard Version Proverbs 4:23

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i know i cant give up..... only because of hubby and the kids. if they wernt here,.......i would be out of here without a secend chance to think about it. i would be gone. just another one of these people in this world who has ended there life. but they are here and i do think about that most of the time but sometimes ....it doesnt even come into my mind because the pain is to much to bare. @Former-Member

im busy cleaning the house again. another thing that lets me down....it just never ends. what i have to do never ends. what i think... never ends. what i think of want i to do .....never ends.
nother ever end. everything is so painfull and it never ends. when will it end. i cant keep on doing this anymore.

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@Bubbles3I feel your pain so much. I don't think I can say anything that you don't already know that will make you feel a tiny bit better. But you are so Worth it and you do Matter.

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