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I feel...

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I feel desperately lonely yet, I feel like I don't belong anywhere. I don't belong in the 'Normal' world because I am tarred with the brush of mental ill health, yet because I've sort of stabilised now, I don't belong with my former peers either. I feel beige, uncoloured and boring with no emotion really even though if I had to say anything it is gutted. I feel trapped in a world I don't want and didn't ask for, yet whenever I try and break the shackles of failure, I am thrust back into the dark and reminded yet again of my failures (my Father is a constant person to remind me). I feel alone, even in a crowded room. I feel unheard, even if I am screaming loudly.

I guess I am just searching for something and not sure what.

Does anyone else feel beige?

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I have an acronym for that too @Queenie @outlander STOMP

Stop

Take a step back

Observe what is going on

Make a list

Proceed

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ok so STOP can be used pretty much for anything so that could be helpful in this case too @Queenie....

some people find getting up and moving while others find they need to sit and calm that way so have a few suggestions for either..

some other suggestions might be:

- listening to music (and dancing around if you choose)

- using the 5 senses

-going for a walk/exercise

-breathing exercises and meditation

-PMR exercises

- remove yourself from whats overwhelming you- e.g you mgiht like to stop, remember to breathe, walk away get a drink then come back to your studies

-sometimes journalling helps

- cleaning the house/ car

umm drawing a blank..- would any of these help?

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Time for another sign to be printed @Zoe7 @outlander!

I think this might go in my resource box too as I will need reminding that the P doesn't stand for Procrastinate.

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haha @Queenie I loooove it

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haha lol @Queenie

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They sound like excellent suggestions @outlander. I thank you for that.

I am really liking @Zoe7's acronyms too. At college when we start assessments, we try to break them down to SMART goals. Have you heard of those?

Appreciating both of you for all your help! 🙂

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no dramas at all @Queenie happy to help

hmm no i dont think ive heard of those goals before- what are they?

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Yes I have @Queenie we use SMART a lot in teaching too - especially when doing professional development or trying to work out our school term and yearly goals.

It has been really great helping you in any little way I have tonight - sometimes it is nice to 'use my brain' a little - it is a great distraction from the normal shite that is usually in it lol

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It is interesting that you've talked about SMART goals as part of professional development @Zoe7, we covered that in our first module and had to develop a professional development plan using SMART goals outline. It was really interesting and something I have continued to use.

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It is a great way to develop both short and long term goals @Queenie

@outlander SMART is Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Timely

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