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SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

The ALL-YEAR-ROUND job of DECLUTTERING and CLEANING our homes is daunting. Especially for those of us who HOARD, or struggle with depression, and decisions, anxiety & other MI. I'm so challenged in this way so reaching out for support. Maybe start an Declutterers Army 💪

If you suffer the same challenge or have some great suggestions - type away... 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙

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Thanks @soul, oftem med to 'slow down' when i finally get momentum - something goes wrong, grr, frustrates me, but pretty sure its a side effect to the asthma meds - wear off soon (hope thats all it is). Don't wanna lose my mondcagain, that messes up everything.

My plans for the weekend are to work the shop Sat, maybe check out the local goings on (we have a festival thing happening here too), and have two house inspections booked tomorrow.

About the Garage Sale - I'm starting yo wonder if its too much work and better to just call the Charity truck (they said they'd pick up). Everything feels all up in he air at the moment. Wanna quit.

Hope your son catches up over the weekend, annoying when they dont respond to msgs. I've arranged to see my son Mon/Tues hopefully.

Hi @Maggie, lovely to see you, so glad you're still here. Can't see the daffodil but know the joy of our own flowers coming up. Keep being you 🌱

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Oh there it is, Beautiful @Maggie, makes me feel happy ☺thank you 💜💕

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Love daffodils @Maggie - beautiful flowers.

Take care @Former-Member. Hopefully something will come out of the inspections. Is your hot water running well now? Perhaps you can sell some of the more expensive stuff on Gumtree. Nice to have some more cash in the hand.

Have messaged my son again and given him a few options - all including a meal. Perhaps that will draw him out.

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Yes tanks @soul, the hot water seems to have sorted for now. Your comment back then, that "it happens sometimes" rang in my mind and relieved worry, and made me try again. I turned it all back on Sunday & it hasn't happened since, plus I've enjoyed a couple of showers. Phew.

I'm so agitated today. Tried to rest but air force jets totally scared me (training), the whole house shakes and ears hurt. Not right!!! This must be what a war zone is like. Theyre gone for now but I gotta leave here.

Just feel like I need to go somewhere quiet and let myself pass away. Like animals do. Not because of the jets so much but because my body feel like I'm dying. M thing left. Seizing up... It might be mostly in my head so if my brain can stay on track I'm about to sort / ORGANISE a filing cabinet - wish me luck. Get up Get up Get up Get up Get up Get up Get up Get up Get up Get up
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Hi @Former-Member

I'm so glad you have your hot water running again - I lost power a few years ago - after a storm - so much of the grid needed fixing I think this area was without power for 60 hours - which I have no doubt could have been worse - I could spend the day at home with the cat but then go to my daughter's place for dinner and a shower and the night - which was lucky for me

I get it about the planes - I really do - I sorta like planes and love flying but the jets that take off from here sometimes rattle my brains - and like the go so fast they are gone before I go out and see - and it can be unnerving to hear something that has disappeared

Sometimes I don't notice the small planes until I am talking to someone or trying to hear the TV and the planes from the flying school start to fly over one after another and another and another and another - and guess what - since I started writing one has gone over - it can get on my nerves - I am not triggered by them but it can really give me a headache and I can't think

Ah - even get up get up get up get up - which is what I have to do - is too hard - bits of my brain fall into my food I think - I forget the end of my sentence before I have said the beginning -

If I was triggered - I can't imagine - but I have lived near this airport for most of my life - my parents moved away from it but moved back - I got married and moved away but moved back and I am still in the area having moved several times

I guess there is always something worse than airports but they sound bad too you - really bad - I guess you will be really glad to move awayf from it

My son was scared of the way the planes would rock from side to side in a storm - sometimes fall a bit - it freaked him out but for some reason he had to keep looking to see if they were all right - poor little kid - so much scared him

Thinking of you Lapses - so much to do - how about we both find a quiet place to just be for a while - I don't feel like passing away but I have a headache and would like to just rest in a quiet place for a while - after all while I have been typing here someone has been trimming a tree near-by

Totally get it Lapses - really understand

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Nice to seebyou @Owlunar, The funny thing about the noisy jets is that the air force base is 2hr drive from here. I'm just on their training flight path, grr! which I guess has to be a pretty big playpen. Where do ya go to get away from that?
I haven't got far today. Fell in a heap again but got woke by the tree man this time - chainsaw & buddies calling out to each other in another language. Mari. Yep, the tree man who was suppose to come back a month ago is here. I forgot I agreed he could come today when bumped into him & his wife at woolies yesterday. He has 3 young offsiders with him, standing around mostly, he's the one up in the tree. Amazing really. Lucky I applied for C'link loan. Probably should have said no now I'm selling (if it sells), not thinking straight.

Feel like I've gained 10kg overnight, yuk.

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Must be tree felling day. I have put up with chainsaws outside too and whippersnippers and blower vacs.

We’ve just had an almighty storm. Thought it was going to hail. It was hot and then suddenly the temperature dropped and the sky darkened. Thunder rumbled and down came heavy drops of rain. Then as quickly as it appeared, it was gone. The earth has been washed clean but now it’s humid. At least it’s fine for me to walk to Yoga a bit later.

And I got the washing off the line before it rained.

Glad you have hot water. Hopefully no more problems. Hope this heavy mood of yours lifts. Did you get some decluttering done?

Hi @Owlunar. Glad you were there to keep @Former-Member company.

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I had a storm here this arvo too @soul, same cloud band I suspect. Everything's drenched. The tree guys worked 'till dark but still need to clean up (tomorrow). Such a mess. He had the hide to ask for payment before cleaning up, so hope he keeps his word (I'm too gullible).

Actually managed to DECLUTTER or sort, my photos. Well, it was a bigvmessbpfcempty albums, frames... Mixed in with important stuff. Now they're all in one place for proper sorting later. Chuckeda lot away but became painful so at least in know where they are. That's something. Like that feeling that comes fr k title wing where something is.

So tired tonight but need to tidy & vac for house inspection tomorrow.

Betta get up again

Has anyone else decluttered a corner today?

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I had a guy look at my courtyard and quote me on laying some turf as it’s just full of weeds at the moment.

We had leftovers for dinner so that has made the fridge look a bit tidier.

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Leftovers + tidy fridge = us tomorrow @soul ..... 😊

See .... I can do maths ..... ❣️
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