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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

I was just about to ask if you had to pick up D @Snowie you mustve resd my mind!

Do you think your mum could or would be willing to move into a retirement village?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Have to leave in about an hour to pick her up @outlander

I don't think she would be willing to move hon. I wish she would but I don't think that would stop her from saying things to me. She likes to put a lot of blame onto me. I have suggested to her that she go see a psych herself but she says she doesn't need to 😔 I sometimes think she needs more help then me.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Sorry took me a while we were out looking at the frogs on the back windows! @Snowie little tree frogs catching the moths.


You can only do what you can. She has to be willing to help herself. Youve done what you can 💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

ohh hope the frogs were cute @outlander !!

I can't do anything else with her, I just need to learn not to take her words to heart.

Will speak to you tomorrow hun. Have to go pick up D soon. I hope you can get some sleep tonight hun and it will be nightmare free.

Thanks for keeping me company. I have loved catching up with you today.

Love you lots and lots 💕💞💛💚💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

They were really cute @Snowie we use to own tree frogs a few years ago.

Hard not to take things to heart when they can be so hurtful 💜

Safe travels to get D. Hope you can get some sleep too
Love you too 💕🌷

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Good morning hun @outlander

Hoping you day goes well today and your drive goes ok.

Thinking of you sis 💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Ive done the first drive @Snowie even foind the hospital ill need to go to on friday. Still have to go back up later. Done 2 loads of washing and yhe horses so far. Cant watch any movies cause pops watching the tv and my computer wont play any dvds anymore so im kinda just sittint in thre room

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Glad you found the hospital hun and that you will know where to go on Friday @outlander

Sounds like you have got a fair bit done today hun, well done.

Have done some washing and ironing myself. Still more to go but don't have the energy to do the rest. It can wait.

Hope you have a good afternoon hun.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Thanks @Snowie hope your arvo is ok 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Thanks @outlander My arvo is working out better then my morning which is good. I was a blubbering mess this morning 😪😪

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