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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Morning @outlander sis.

Hoping today is a good day for you and things go well.

Lots of love and hugs sweetheart

💜💖💜💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Sans911 @Emelia8 @Eve7 @Anastasia @Shaz51 @Bow @Faith-and-Hope @Zoe7
sending you all love

going to try my best today to access some support services

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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Morning @outlander 💜

Good to hear Hon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how are you going? @Faith-and-Hope

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how are you today? @Emelia8

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Thats good to hear @outlander , although it probably means you've reached rock bottom in coming to this decision. I really hope you are able to get the support you seek and need. Try very hard Li'l One and dont take no for an answer.

Much love to you sweetheart.

Emelia 🤗💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Emelia8
im so anxious today. i made contact with my aged care who will call back i guess whenever they can. i just have to actually pick up the phone.
i also sent an email to the local service provider who we get the carers through and they are passing on my details to some of the respite places so i can talk to them as well about the processes if approved fees etc
so anxious i can barely breathe. have been up most of the night and an early run today so probably hasnt helped much. very tired, struggling to get up and move past the computer today

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Emelia8 how are you travelling? hoping your not getting to many lingering side effects from radiation?
how is little holly? is she recovering ok?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander well done for reaching out for help hun. I am sure that wasn't easy for you. You should be proud of yourself hun 💜

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