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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Anastasia ☕💕

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I've got severe liver problems @outlander so I have to limit paracetamol a lot as it's metabolised in the liver. Can't take nsaids as they mess with my gut. I try some peppermint oil yesterday which can sometimes help with headaches. It didn't work at all. My left eye is very weepy too, another sign I have a migraine. I haven't had one this bad in almost 3 years.

Please don't be hard on yourself. You've always struggled to reach out got help, and honestly, you're doing the best you can right now. You always put yourself last, so I'm glad that you have recognised that you can't sustain this pace and need help. It's you who is suffering the most. You're just as important as your sisters and pop.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Good night everyone @outlander @Anastasia @Eve7 @Sans911 @Former-Member 💤😊💓

Safe travels to Adelaide @Eve7 . Hope no more covid outbreaks or lockdowns around the country. You're taking a risk travelling interstate. At least you're not going to Melbourne. Guessing you are taking a direct flight to Adelaide?

Emelia 💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Goodnight @Anastasia sleep well 😴

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Oh ok i thought it was just anti-inflammatory meds you would have to limit @Sans911 thats a bummer
The lavender oil you suggested was quite helpful for headaches when i had some left i used some on my wrists,on my temples ans abit on the back of my neck as well.
and helped abit. Might help for you?
And cold facewashers on back of neck and over eyes and forehead usually help too
Could you try those?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Goodnight @Emelia8 🌻

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I can't get to my lavender oil atm @outlander. It's in the bookcase with several boxes/items in front of it.

Yes, I am aware of using cold face washers. For now my migraine has dulled a little. I'll be going to sleep soon.

Goodnight @Emelia8 👋💤💤💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hopefuly it eases abit more @Sans911 🌷💕

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Dropping off some 💞 for you @outlander because you are special to me 🙏🤗💞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Morning my sweet sis @outlander

So glad you had support around you last night.

Hoping you got some sleep and today is a little better for you.

Lots and lots of love and hugs sweetheart 💜💜💜

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