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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor12 Feb 2021, 10:46 pm AEDT

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I know sweetie, thank you @outlander xox

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Feb 2021, 10:50 pm AEDT

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Im glad your ok @Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Feb 2021, 10:51 pm AEDT

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@Anastasia 💕

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Sans911Senior Contributor12 Feb 2021, 10:51 pm AEDT

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Usually has a 3 day run @outlander, so I have one day to go. Ending up taking just one paracetamol today because I just wasn't coping well. I haven't eaten much in the last few days either. Haven't been up to it.

Sorry you're going through so much hassle again. It's not good. Please take care of you (I know that's hard to do).

It's good that some things are being taken care of at your home @Emelia8. It should make life easier.

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Eve7Senior Contributor12 Feb 2021, 11:02 pm AEDT

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Sorry you’re not well @Sans911 I hope you can sleep well tonight.

Good night all

@outlander @Anastasia @Former-Member @Emelia8 @Bow

I am going to Adelaide tomorrow but will be back on Sunday...long story.

💜🦋💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Feb 2021, 11:03 pm AEDT

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Yeah i know, they can be awful. I get them quite often and usually lasts a few days. They become draining. Are you not allowed to take pain relief?

Im making some phone calls on monday @Sans911 im not coping here. I need to do something otherwise thoughts might turn into actions instead. My sh habits have already come back and been the worst its been in months. Its a huge step backwards. I should have noticed the signs instead of hiding from them.

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Feb 2021, 11:04 pm AEDT