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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember

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Yes there's nothing you can do except take the antiinflammatory,you could Google to check the maximum dose you can take if it gets too bad.

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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@outlander Have you tried a hottie or wheat bag on it. Not sure if the weight might be a bit too much though.

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TABSenior Contributor

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Take it easy @outlander and do what you have to do re pain twitches etc that can be vitamin deficiency or other things maybe its a coincidence but if its that bad get help please. Am going off here for a while. Timing myself out lol

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I van only take 2 in a day and ive already taken it @Former-Member so ive got my ultrasound on monday and drs on friday and tuesday i have my podiatrist so hopefully they csn help me too

@Maggie i can bear the weight of one. Ill see if i can find one

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @TAB
Ill get help if it gets too bad ❤ hopefully tjat wont be a 2am job lol

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Unknown userMember

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Hope they find something to help you outlander,I suggest if possible you rest easy in the morning ,but I reckon you've got horses to deal with.Rest from experience is the only thing.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Nope im.not going anywhere tomorrow
The horses can wait @Former-Member
Tomorrow is rest day before a hectic next week

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Unknown userMember

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That's good.😁@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Former-Member
Im so tired but i cant handle all this emotion
Its so strong its making me sick physically and extremely hot 😞

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Unknown userMember

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I understand the trauma @outlander,you did something I never had the guts to do because of my emotional state.Ive had animals die in front of me,it is traumatic.But you did what was best for her like I did when my 16.1 hh horse looked me in the eye like I've never seen after I said to him You want to go don't you?"they aren't stupid.Im getting distressed remembering and he was with us for at least 18 years.Just be easy on yourself outlander. I always say if I enter heaven and there's crossroads with signs saying "people"and another saying "animal".It would be a hard decision.The only thing I said to my animals when I lost them "you will always be with me"...It's true .💗
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