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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I tried to turn my music iff to rest. I turned it straight back on. The silence made the emotions stronger @Maggie @Former-Member @Queenie @TAB

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KobeCatSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

KobeCat here on night moderation,

I am sorry things are so difficult and condolences on your loss.

Please let me know if I can offer any support via email etc.

Please stay safe,

Regards

Cheryl

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @KobeCat
I tried to turn my music off but it made the emotions stronger than ever 😞

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I'm sitting with you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thank you @Maggie
It was and is much appreciated 💓 💓 💓

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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@outlander No worries. I hope your day goes ok today. Rest up as much as you can. Thinking of you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Maggie ❤❤❤
I think ill be watching some movies today
Im feeling very flat and tired

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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Flat and tired is very understandable, you've just lost your best friend. Movies is a good choice. Take care.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Maggie ❤ ❤ for everything 😘😘

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member thank you for your lovely response last night. I was trying to comprehend everything but my brain only wanted to undestand the short msgs. Ive reread what you wrote this morning and i want to thank you for putting that view across. While im not religious i take in all perspectives that people offer. It makes sense what you havr written and i can only hope that these animals come to me for a reason. Even the bad ones. But it would be nice for something good to happen one day too. So far nothing good has happened to me and im waiting for the change when things do start to get better ❤❤❤❤❤
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