Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

47,612Members
1,358,869Posts
1,400,000Visitors

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

18135 replies

8,941 - 8,950 of 18,135

1...894 895 896...1,814

In response to: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 4:10 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

Afternoon @outlander

Hoping the gp was helpful for you hun

Love your new picture 😊

💜💜

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 4:25 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

thanks @Snowie

dr was ok, got the new refferral so will email that to the clinic on monday. and do an ongoing test for a week then go back and see her plus a 24hr bp test on tuesday

when are your guests due?

In response to: Re: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 4:30 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

Glad it went ok @outlander How are you going today?

Just sitting down having a cuppa and a rest. Been on the go all day cleaning, washing and food shopping.

Probably won't arrive till about 6 so got a bit of time to myself for now.

Already had a prn so will see how I go when everyone arrives 😒

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 4:40 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

a well deserved rest the sounds of it! @Snowie a cuppa and chilling till they arrive sounds like a good idea
i hope the prn helps. just remember to try and take a break here and there if you can and we are here for you too.

In response to: Re: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 5:04 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

Will do hun @outlander

Have you got much planned for the rest of today?

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 5:11 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

sorting out bill repayments now @Snowie its taken me over an hour to sort most of them out. have 3 more left to do now. wondering how on earth im suppose to pay these and still try and live!

In response to: Re: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 5:18 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

That must be hard hun @outlander

You are doing the best you can with what you have sweetheart.

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 5:23 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

doesnt seem like enough @Snowie these arent even the appt fees or anything the horses need either.
pop still has $4000 owing on his credit card which already comes out of his pay. its honestly ridiculous. i have no idea how its gotten this bad. i can see an end to 3 loans in the next few weeks though so thatll be a relief

In response to: Re: not coping

Eve7Senior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 10:35 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

Are you around @outlander

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 11:18 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

You ok? @Eve7

Im up just for abit longer. Would you like me to come and sit witj you for a while?

8,941 - 8,950 of 18,135

1...894 895 896...1,814