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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Jan 2021, 12:56 am AEDT

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You never overwhelm or add to my own things. I love talking to you about anything and everything. No matter what i will still be here for you too. Tag away! I love hearing from you even when i might not be able to reply straight away. @Sans911

Ive had to think and make some decisions about the horses and my clients the past few days. Its not sitting to well with me atm because im not use to down grade from helping but i think i have to at least for a while anyway.

Ive also managed to find an allergenist suitable for me too. Shes 2.5hrs Away though but shes through the public system so financially its so much better so its worth it and more of a relief too. Just have to get a new gp refferral addressed to her.

How are you going? I think you had to go to the clinic today for a wound check?

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Sans911Senior Contributor15 Jan 2021, 1:08 am AEDT

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I'm just aware though @outlander lots of others like to talk to you and get support from you. I don't want to take any of that away. I'm alright. Clnic was

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Sans911Senior Contributor15 Jan 2021, 1:09 am AEDT

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OK. No stitches, Just dressings and review by the nurses in a week.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Jan 2021, 1:12 am AEDT

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Youd never take that away. You have a special place in my ❤

Im glad theres no stitches, hoping by next week itll be better and back to healing more. @Sans911

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Jan 2021, 1:20 am AEDT

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Would you like to share a tea or something with me @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor15 Jan 2021, 1:21 am AEDT

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They were almost healed @outlander when a couple of places started to break down. It just felt like everything was happening like before. I'm no longer even, and I have very visible criss cross scars. My whole body shape has changed dramatically. I'm not satisfied at all.

I'm a bit up and down atm. OK one minute, tears the next.

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Sans911Senior Contributor15 Jan 2021, 1:22 am AEDT

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Cold drink would be great thanks @outlander. Too hot for a tea.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Jan 2021, 1:26 am AEDT

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Thats a real bugger @Sans911 the setbacks really dont seem fair.
I dont blame you for being up and down, its alot to juggle and youve been doing it for such a long time now too. If those wounds would cooperate and just heal properly im sure that would be better for you and help allow you to move forward

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 10:40 am AEDT

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Good morning my sweet sis @outlander

Hoping you got some sleep last night and your gp appointment goes well for you today.

Love and hugs 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Jan 2021, 12:35 pm AEDT

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thanks @Snowie have been to drs, need to do some more tests again so just arranging those

hope your bbq today goes well too

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