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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Yeah healthy lifestyle is good @Emelia8 its the small things though like theres no biscuits i could have to go with a cup of tea now or that sneaky bit of cake for desert. I cant just pop up the road to grab a pie or sausage roll or if im super busy/travelling buy takeaway. Everythings more expensive and have to read labels. Im dreading Christmas. I have to actually take my own. Im already the 'problem' when going out or going somewhere to eat now its even worse. I dont like fish or any seafood guess thats a good thing but i dont like alot of fruits either Sorry i shoudnt complain. Just frustrates me

Do you want to talk about your decisions u have to make?

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Goodnight @Snowie i hope you sleep well. I think ill be going to lay down soon too

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@Eve7 💕

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I will also say good night @outlander @Snowie @Emelia8

I hope we all sleep well.

❤️💚❤️

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Good night @Snowie @Eve7 😴

@outlander Yes I know its highly inconvenient and mightily unfair for you. But this is a lifetime thing, and adapting to this diet will definitely make a huge difference to your health in the long term. Once you get the hang of it, and feel the benefits, it will become second nature

Its totally normal right now to see only what you cant eat, because there certainly are a lot of restrictions. But you will soon learn what you can eat and what you like ... you will gradually broaden your range of foods you can eat.

But I totally get that it all seems so hard right now.

Have you seen a dietician or nutritionist yet? I recall you were looking into doing so, but unsure if you have done so yet. I think it would be money well spent.

Meant to say earlier too ... well done for seeking out a new GP. Hope this one is much better than the last.

No, there isnt really anything to talk about with treatment decisions. I know the oncologist will push for one long term treatment, which I really dont want. The other possible treatment recommended could be pushed if I say I dont want the other option. Or they may recommend both. Ive already agreed to radiation therapy. Was always told it was a given, when electing lumpectomy rather than full mastectomy. I just want to do as much research as possible on additional therapies beforehand so I know what to do. But at the same time accepting professional advice as to best treatment options. End of the day ... its a decision purely for me. And I know the risks verses benefits.

Emelia 🌷

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Goodnight @Eve7 😴

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I havent seen the dietician yet @Emelia8 might soon but ive heard they dont really help much with allergies anyway 🤷‍♀️ the nutritionist is over 100$ and not rebated by Medicare and cant afford that atm.


Theyre not easy decisons to make i guess theres alot to discuss tomorrow to see whats best etc for you.hopefully you can get all your concerns eased and questions answered do your well informed.

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Good morning @outlander @Emelia8 @Eve7 @Maggie @Former-Member and anyone else around.

Hoping you got some sleep last night and today is a good day for you

Lots of love and hugs

💜💜

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@outlander 💗🦋

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@Lee82 @Snowie @Emelia8 @Eve7 @Maggie @Anastasia @Sans911 @Former-Member

sending you all my love 💚💕🧡

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