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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@Emelia8 👋 how are you?

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Sorry to hear it has been such a hard day @outlander and night.

It must be difficult to try and get things done throughout the day when you feel so sick.

My day has been ok, just the same sh*t different day I guess.

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yeah i toally understand @Snowie life can be like that sometimes hey
do you have much on tomorrow?

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Got a few things on tomorrow @outlander

It is the kids last day of school. They normally have an awards assembly but are doing it via zoom this year so will watch that in the afternoon.

Have to take H to pick up his new car tomorrow in the morning. He is a tad excited!!!

Have you got much planned for tomorrow?

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my sisters finish on wednesday @Snowie not looking forward to it
im sure H is excited! always nice getting a new car

i have kids morning and till midnight, need to go to rta to renew pops license and pick up some click and collects

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His like a little kid at christmas @outlander 😊

I'm guessing you will have the kids a lot on the holidays hun. Do you get any relief from them at all?

I hope your mum appreciates all you do for her and for your siblings.

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Im okay thanks @outlander , just have some decisions to make. Keeping me a bit quiet. Pain levels are manageable now. I saw my breastcare nurse yesterday. And I have an appointment with medical oncologist tomorrow. Should have a better idea after that, as to a treatment plan going forward. @Eve7 @Former-Member @Anastasia

So sorry sweetheart about the extra allergies you now know you have. 😔 It all seems so terribly unfair.

Mind you ... its something all of us should be doing ... eating healthy fruit veges and limited meats. I think you have a shellfish allergy ... how about fish? I know your diet may seem limited, but it really isnt. You can still eat all the good stuff.

I do agree though that good healthy fresh food can be more expensive than processed junk food.

Emelia 🍒🍓🍉🍌🍎🍊🍄🍋🍐🍍:peach::eggplant:🍇

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yeah ill have them alot im guessing as usual @Snowie plus an extra one to watch and who will be staying with me for a few nights as well. middle one might have a new job though so won have her much bu will have to take her and pick her up. mosly have to last the first 3 weeks when is busiest

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I hope you get some 'me' time in there @outlander

You are such a good big sister to them hun.

Will say goodnight to you sweetie. Didn't sleep well last night so hoping tonight is a little better.

I hope you get some sleep tonight hun and tomorrow is a better day for you.

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Good night @Snowie I hope you sleep well tonight and become as excited as h about the new car.

💜💖💜

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