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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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A Netflix night with our friends here sounds good @Bow if only hey

Yeah family has always been difficult. I dont really say i have a friend they find out at some point though. I dont though they even like me working with my clients though. I dunno its hard i guess always been this way
I would want you around it wouldnt bother me if you were single married kids or no kids . I understand that grief too. It feels like ive missed out on alot

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander here with you hun 💕

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BowSenior Contributor

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I’m watching virgin river. They have just released season 2.

That sounds hard @outlander that you don’t have your own private life- when they find things out. I live with my parents, it’s hard to have my own private life at times. Always get asked where I am going etc.

what kind of clients do you have? Not sure i know what kind of work you do- if your ok with sharing that?

And thank you 🙂

grief is such a deep thing. And yes, missing out in lots. I think social media can make it feel even worse. You see ‘friends’ out doing things etc.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I work with horses so my clients are those wanting their horses looked after or paddocks cleaned or deweeded @Bow plus im a full time carer at home and i often babysit my siblings more often then not.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah social media can make it tricky its great to see them happy but some things are what id like to do too without having to worry about 100 things or without family tagging along. Or u see the so called friends but the exclude you from everything @Bow

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BowSenior Contributor

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Oh horses can be very therapeutic. I have a friend who works with equine therapy- if that’s how you spell it?

do you care for your parents?

@Snowie You up for a movie night?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I just care for grandfather who had dementia amongst other things @Bow

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hey @Bow

A movie night sounds good, not sure how long I will last however!

Already in my pj's

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BowSenior Contributor

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Hehe @Snowie that’s fine.

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