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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 10:57 pm AEDT

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Same as @Eve7 and @Emelia8 and my forum friends too.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 10:58 pm AEDT

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Thank you x

Have you heard from @Snowie, @outlander?

I haven't seen her for some time. Did you get to your horse commitment today? I thought of you in this heat.

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 11:07 pm AEDT

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@Snowie was on earlier today thankfull @Anastasia

I did get to it, dragged on abit though esp with not much sleep and the heat. It was 28 here today and basically most of this weeks the same too.
Did you go out on the boat today

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 11:12 pm AEDT

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That is good news about @Snowie

Gosh would have been very uncomfortable in that heat @outlander . Well done you though getting there 🙂

No not today, just a trip to Bunnings and chores today.

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Eve7Senior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 11:12 pm AEDT

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I’m only half awake @outlander

💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 11:14 pm AEDT

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Yeah chores never end hey @Anastasia thats usually an every second day thing here unless people are coming over then i have to have clean house

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 11:15 pm AEDT

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@Eve7 💜💕

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 11:20 pm AEDT

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Nope never ending @outlander

I had hoped to put together a roster for the household chores today and allocated them to my boys. I didn't get there. Tomorrow I will and then my weekends will be less exhausting. Onwards and upwards 🙂🙂🙂

Hello @Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 11:20 pm AEDT

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😴😴 so tired, would be nice to get somr sleep if my brain and body will let me

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor22 Nov 2020, 11:24 pm AEDT

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Have you ever tried a meditation app. I think I used headspace was amazing. Used to fall asleep pretty quick. Otherwise just music, waterfalls, rainforests that type of thing, and deep breathing works wonders too @outlander

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