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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeh @Snowie its hard. There isnt much to do where im going either like no shops or anything unless i travel an extra hr south which might do. Theres just a few little tourist shops but so overpriced so not really worth it for a place we go to at least oncr a month 🤷‍♀️ theres woolworths and the reject shop we might walk to if we get bored enough.
Might just be the way im feeling atmz i want to get away but i dont know doesnt really feel like getting away if that makes sense. Hope my sister will be working in a way so i can have a few hrs to myself before i go back home Sunday morning.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully it is just the way you are feeling hun and you can enjoy yourself @outlander

Least it will be 2 days away from your carers job and perhaps time to have some time to yourself.

Have you got much coming up this week sis?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Not overly busy this week @Snowie just horses ans kids. Will prob start xmas shopping this week since its not to far away now.

What about you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Xmas shopping sounds like a good idea. I have started for the kids but no one else yet.

Horses, kids and Pop will no doubt keep you busy sis.

Have a busy week @outlander Got psych and pdoc this week. Also getting another tattoo and got dog booked in for a haircut!

They are all on different days so at least it is spread out.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im glad there are some nice things this week planned for you though @Snowie it would be good if you could share your tattoo ideas

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It would be good if I could share them with you and others @outlander

All I can say is that it is adding to one I already have.

Have you got any plans for tomorrow at all?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hello @Emelia8 @Eve7 how are you both

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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How many do you have already? @Snowie

Ive got work thingy for 2 hrs, horses, ans paddock cleaning. Need to be up by 630 and out the door by 7 to have everything done

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I already have 4 @outlander sort of addicted to them!!! Some are small, some are big.

Wow hun, that is super early. I hope you get some sleep tonight.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Oh thats not to bad @Snowie
My stepdad has 4 just on one arm and more scattered 🤦‍♀️

Ive been getting up around 6 anyway so may as well make the most if it. By lunch time my energy levels really start to drop
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