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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 5:42 pm AEDT

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I wish i could answer with im good but its not the case @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 5:44 pm AEDT

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Sorry to hear hun @outlander

I am around if you need to chat sis, or sit.

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 5:54 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Snowie life's just hard for no real reason atm. Just wearing down from the roles offline atm. Dreading next weekend when i should be enjoying it

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 5:58 pm AEDT

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You have lots on your plate hun @outlander

Sorry if I am a step behind but what is happening next weekend, only if you want to share.

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 6:01 pm AEDT

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Im suppose to be going away for 2 days @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 6:04 pm AEDT

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Are you going with anyone hun?

Sometimes it is hard to look forward to anything @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 6:06 pm AEDT

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Yeh sister cause dont have anyone else. Dreading going with her atm though. Personality clashes @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 6:17 pm AEDT

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That doesn't sound good @outlander

Do you have to go?

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 6:22 pm AEDT

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Notifications arent working again 🤦‍♀️ @Snowie

I do have to go. It was a birthday present mum got me. Its a 2 night stay but for 2 people so i could bring someone with me. Its been booked for a while now

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Nov 2020, 6:38 pm AEDT

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No, notifications are not working

Oh I remember now you talking about that awhile ago @outlander

That is a hard position to be in hun if you already have it booked and have to go.

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