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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:29 pm AEDT

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it is @outlander but he is old enough to understand why so I guess that is a good thing.

Will say goodnight sis, I hope you get some sleep tonight. Taken my meds so will be asleep soon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:38 pm AEDT

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Goodnight sis @Snowie 😴🌻

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 2:10 pm AEDT

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Hey sis @outlander

Just coming past to see how you are today. Think of you lots 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 2:45 pm AEDT

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Hello @Snowie ❤

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 2:55 pm AEDT

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Hey sis @outlander

How are you going this afternoon?

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 3:31 pm AEDT

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Tired and headachy which has become the norm lately @Snowie
Haven't done much besides the horses today.
How are you

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 3:38 pm AEDT

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That is no good @outlander

I hope for your sake that your headache doesn't get any worse hun.

Haven't done a lot today. Very cold and wet here. I am ok, just trying to stay busy so I don't think too much. On a good note, my house is cleaner for it!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 3:42 pm AEDT

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I have a massage tomorrow but 2 of my vertebrae are out so im going to need a chiro to put them back in place. Tired and headachy is part of anaemia too apparently same as breathless like i keep getting. Was very bad breathing this morning while i was rushing around.

Cold and raining here too. So not much to do.

How was S's birthday? Does he like the new bed? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 4:00 pm AEDT

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He loves his new bed @outlander , looks quite nice in his room. Have sold his old one so just waiting for the person to come pick it up this afternoon.

Sounds like you do need to see a chiro hun, hoping you can rest this afternoon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 4:03 pm AEDT

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Thats great @Snowie i know you put alot of effort in nd ita great the other one sold so quickly too. One less thing in the house taking up space hey.

The day has gone so slowly. It feels like the last time i looked at the clock it was hours avo but its literally been half hr 🥴🤦‍♀️

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