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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 9:46 pm AEDT

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Hey @outlander @Emelia8 @Sans911 @Shaz51, how are you all?

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 9:52 pm AEDT

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Hopefully you get some sleep tonight @outlander

I am sure you have tried all different ways to get the meds down. Hoping you can get them down somehow.

Just watching the footy in my pj's with the dog!

Have put S's bed together. It looks really good. Hopefully tomorrow he will get a nice surprise when he see's it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 9:58 pm AEDT

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Hello @Fluttershy1

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:00 pm AEDT

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Hello @outlander, how are you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:01 pm AEDT

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Im going to have a talk yo the dr next week @Snowie the breathing has been cleared as an effect of anaemia. I cant take the tablet version because they have lactose of they are big tablets i cant swollow properly but the liquid version is horrid and gives abit of a burning sensation as it gets swollowed. Ill hear about my other test results by tuesday which will also tell me if i need some injections as well so i can ask what i might be able to try out instead.

Im sure S will love his new bed. Is it his birthday tomorrow?

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:07 pm AEDT

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Sounds like it is hard all round hun, the liquid must taste horrid for you. Hoping your results come back ok hun.

Yes it is his Birthday tomorrow @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:14 pm AEDT

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Quite tired tonight @Fluttershy1 how are you

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:15 pm AEDT

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I hope he has a good birthday @Snowie is there much planned for tomorrow?

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:19 pm AEDT

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Nothing really planned, can't do much because of covid. Had to cancel his party @outlander

Oh well, there is next year

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Oct 2020, 10:23 pm AEDT

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Oh thats a shame @Snowie

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