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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@outlander I am so sorry to hear that you have so many medical issues hun but was happy to hear that you were able to call and get some much needed advice. All the best with you appointment later on babe. Am always thinking of you. So very sorry I haven't been around to support babe more just haven't been in the best place mentally to help anyone right now.
sending you gentle hugs❤️💜💙💚💛

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Hey @outlander ... took me a while to get back to you today ... sorry about that. I was in the waiting room to see my GP when you first posted this morning at about 11.30am. He was running late as is typical. Then I was in there for a 3/4 of an hour. Had to rush home and do medications and lunch for hubby. Sigh ... time just got away. And I had phone calls to make to get appointments secured after getting my required referral to a surgeon. In between all that, I actually managed to get in a half hour snooze after lunch. Which I really needed.

Been thinking of you all day though Outlander, and wondering how you got along at the clinic. I've been checking my notifications to check if you'd posted again, but so far nothing. You didnt mention what time your appointment was, so perhaps you havent even been yet.

You dont have to thank anyone for being here @outlander . Speaking for myself (and probably everyone else too) I will always try to be here for you. For whatever thats worth. I will always try though. You have never upset me Li'l One, and I dont feel that you have pushed me away either. Nothing you have said has affected me adversely. So I want you to know that you can always count on me being here for you, unless the choice is taken out of my hands.

I hope to hear from you again soon as to how things have been for you today, and whether the clinic has helped you.

Emelia 💕

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Please stay safe @outlander I am sending you some loving hugs 🤗 my friend.

I hope your appointment went ok today and you got a treatment plan.

Much love

💙💜💙

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💞💞 @outlander

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@outlander sis, lots and lots of love hun 💖💖

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@Snowie @outlander @Eve7 @Sans911

And everyone...

Sending love and hugs. Sorry I haven't been around, thinking of you all

🌺🌸🌹🌼💐🌻

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@Anastasia please don't be sorry for not being around (I haven't either), you need to take care of you first.

Lots of love and hugs back 💖💖💖

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Hello...

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Thinking of you 💙🤗💜🤗💙

@outlander

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@outlander sis, thinking of you and sitting with you hun.

Lots of love and hugs 😘😘💌💌

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