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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor14 Oct 2020, 10:15 pm AEDT

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That wasn't very helpful information from the nurse @outlander. Did you ring Health Direct? What about getting out an on call doctor? That might be worthwhile. 💞💞💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Oct 2020, 10:25 pm AEDT

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That was a dr trained in iud's 😳 @Sans911
Im tired, not really sleeping much atm cause of some symptoms
Im not really up for ringing anyone else. I find it hard on phones and ringing people

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Oct 2020, 10:41 pm AEDT

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@Emelia8 💙

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Sans911Senior Contributor14 Oct 2020, 10:52 pm AEDT

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I'm sorry @outlander. I realised I missed a page or two of information. Yes, I know you don't like making phone calls.

I don't feel like I'm much support to you right now. Going to leave you alone, and let others support you better.

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Oct 2020, 10:54 pm AEDT

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Please dont leave @Sans911

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Oct 2020, 10:56 pm AEDT

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Your supporting me more then you know @Sans911

How are you going? How was the op shop?

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Oct 2020, 11:27 pm AEDT

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@Sans911 i rang the health direct people and got some advice. Theyve adviced that if i have breathing difficulties again and chest pains tonight, pains not responding to meds or feel it might be best to go to ed then do so. They said it might actually be a good idea to ring the gynae clinic and get the advice from them first thing in the morning because they can tell me whether its normal or not or how to manage etc.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor14 Oct 2020, 11:42 pm AEDT

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That was really good advice @Sans911

and well done @outlander for calling them. I'm off to bed up early for work. I hope you both get some sleep. Hugs and good luck tomorrow with the clinic sweets❣️

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Oct 2020, 11:30 am AEDT

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I dont want to tag anyone but i want to say thank you for being here. Im sorry im not the best person to be around atm and im even more sorry if ive been upsetting anyone or pushing anyone away. I realise my mh isnt to good atm and ita affecting not only me but others.

I have rung the clinic and i need to come in for an appt later. Im not sure whatll happen after that.

Thank you everyone again 💕

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Emelia8Senior Contributor15 Oct 2020, 11:37 am AEDT

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@outlander 💜💜💗💕

Cant talk now, waiting to see my GP now. Will try to check in later.

Emelia 🌺🐬

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