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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 👍👍
Of course

What made you want to study architecture?

Im super lucky ive got others who know the stuff im studying. It makes a great distraction and often provides entertainment for others reading when we start making jokes too

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I have always wanted to be an architect. The precision drawings. Being able to design peoples homes and making their dreams come true. It all just appealed to me. I loved graphic arts in high school and excelled in it. It was my passion.
I can definitely see how studying with others can be a great distraction @outlander. so glad you have that distraction when things get tough. ☺️

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Hi @HakunaKhunz we are over here if you would like to join us

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Designing peoples dream homes would be pretty cool! @Lee82
Do you like the interior decorating part as well?
Im not to sure id be good with architecture but i dont mind styling a room up

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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@Lee82

I love old buildings (and some more modern), especially living in London. Love watching architecture shows too, like Grand Designs.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@HakunaKhunz 👋

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Lol...no I'm terrible at designing rooms. I can invision what a room would look like but where to put what I'm useless. Anyway I never got to finish my course and so that dream was never fulfilled. @outlander

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Same here @Sans911 love all the grand design shows. How long did you live in London for?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Its never to late to persue your dreams @Lee82

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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That can be true but I would have to make too many sacrifices to peruse that dream. Sacrifices I'm not willing to make. I have to try and put my kids first and make sure they get the best possible chance they can get with their schooling. In order for me go back to architecture it has to be full time at uni. I cannot do that course online. I cannot provide for my family as well as be at uni everyday as well look after my boys. @outlander

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