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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:42 pm AEDT

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its tough not to do that @Eve7 have you got some things to do tonight and tomorrow to help not over think?

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:48 pm AEDT

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@Emelia8 @Sans911 @Anastasia
how are you?

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:57 pm AEDT

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I’m tempted to sit in the Spa with champagne and pretend I don’t know myself but I’ll probably cook some meals and leave in the freezer. Everything is such an effort @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 9:00 pm AEDT

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you know Eve, sitting in the spa doesnt sound like a bad idea! @Eve7

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 9:04 pm AEDT

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Yeah and you could join me...I wish @outlander Ill clean it while I’m 😌 relaxing

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 9:09 pm AEDT

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that would be lovely @Eve7 we can only wish though hey

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 9:41 pm AEDT

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It’s a great way to relax @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 9:49 pm AEDT

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It is @Eve7
Trying to recconect with a helpline again

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 10:03 pm AEDT

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Back for a little bit, a spa sounds lovely @Eve7 @outlander

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 10:05 pm AEDT

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I’ll invite everyone over one day @Anastasia

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