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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 7:42 pm AEDT

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It was making me a littlw distressed talking to them so i asked to cut the session short @Anastasia @Eve7 might try later.

Going to try and have a salad

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 7:47 pm AEDT

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Please take care. Enjoy your salad sweetheart ❤️

@outlander

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 7:48 pm AEDT

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Just sitting here with you @outlander

@Anastasia

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:00 pm AEDT

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thanks @Anastasia @Eve7

its already giving me a stomach ache. i dont know why theres no dairy in it and i took a tablet thats suppose to help digest things with lactose in them incase there was something hidden but it hasnt helped either. its gurgling and very unhappy

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:04 pm AEDT

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It might be just he lack of food that you've had and your tummy is probably distressed. Hopefully it will settle for you xxx

@outlander @Eve7

Need to go and do dinner I'll come back later to check on you x

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:16 pm AEDT

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Maybe you could keep a diary of everything you eat and the effect it has in you then show the specialist and dietician @outlander

I am sorry you have to deal with this all the time.

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:19 pm AEDT

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@Eve7 i done that for a few weeks when we were trying to work out what was wrong. the gastroenterologist just said that anything will affect my digestive system if its inflammed..

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:32 pm AEDT

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Oh well at least you know that. I am so sorry It’s like this and I wish I could do something. This must be so frustrating for you hon xxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:34 pm AEDT

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thanks @Eve7

hw are you going?

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:40 pm AEDT

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I’m ok @outlander just trying not to overthink things

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