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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Thank goodness for nurse @Eve7 xxx

Holding your hand dear @outlander xxx

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am here with you sweetie @outlander Youve made the right decision and soon you’ll get the proper treatment ❤️

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Not sure what's on the menu here. Sadly it's up to me probably like you every night. Something easy i think. Fish and chips sound good @Eve7 and a virtual Moet 🍾🥂

Still with you @outlander

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OtterSenior Contributor

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Hi @Former-Member ,

It sounds like you may be grappling with some SI as some background noise in your being at the moment, I can see here that it has been a really tough day, and so just a friendly moderator reminder that you can always reach out to SCBS or Lifeline for a chat, or to any of to the right places you see fit if you do need, and just sending some really good vibes, thoughts and care your way.

Here with you tonight and always,

Otter

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Oh dear Li'l One @outlander ... I am sorry you are so unwell. At least you followed the advice of lovely nurse @Eve7 and I am sure that @Sans911 would have given the same advice. You did well Sweetie.

Hoping its nothing serious and that you will be permitted home after tests and assessment. But it is definitely a concern that you have been in so much pain. Let them get to the bottom of it all and fix you up now. Meanwhile I am sitting with you and holding your hand.

Same as you @Anastasia ... I dont know what I'll do for dinner here yet either. Been out for a bit with hubbys appointments this afternoon. I really dont feel like eating anything myself, but hubby is always hungry. So I will need to throw something decent together in a hurry. Actually I have some left over BBQ chicken ... might do something with that. Sigh.

Emelia 🌸

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Hello @Emelia8

Cooking is such a pain after a long day.

An omelette? Or toasted chicken and cheese sandwiches?

Does hubby expect gourmet usually or is he happy with an easy meal at times?

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OtterSenior Contributor

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Glad to hear you have made the call to 000 tonight @outlander, you've shown tremendous strength. Wishing you all the very best here from the Mods team.

Here with you,

Otter

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am still sitting with you @outlander I am hoping you receive competent care very soon.

💙💜💙

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Yes thats true @Anastasia ... long nights and long days add up. Cooking has never been my favourite passtime. Although I quite like doing 'occasion cooking', the everyday sort just isnt my thing. I am a reasonable cook, but dont really enjoy it. Unfortunately hubby expects pretty much gourmet meals every night. Anything quick and easy he will eat (thankfully he will eat most things) but turns his nose up and makes sure I know it was not up to scratch.

Decided I would throw together a pasta dish with left over chicken. Better hop to it I guess. Cooking is even harder when I dont feel like eating myself too of course.

Emelia

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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I thought that might be the Cass with hubby @Emelia8 ☹️

Still here with you @outlander hoping you have arrived and are being taken care of already 💜

@Eve7 I better go and sort something out for dinner myself now x

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