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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 4:46 pm AEST

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@Eve7 sorry was suppose to tag u above

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 4:51 pm AEST

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Do you have pain in your shoulder when you breathe @outlander ?

Sitting with you sweetie 💙💙💙

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 4:56 pm AEST

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I'm sorry @outlander

I am leaving work in a few minutes to drive home, please take care of you. I'll come back once I am home xoxoxo Please stay safe x

@Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 4:57 pm AEST

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please drive safely @Anastasia

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 4:57 pm AEST

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uh not specifically my shoulder @Eve7 my back is aching but the worst is abdo

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 5:08 pm AEST

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Sometimes abdo pain can be referred up the vagus nerve to your shoulder if it’s appendix or gallstones but I was just an RN not a doctor @outlander

Has the dr called yet?

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 5:15 pm AEST

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I’ll be having fish n chips @Anastasia if you want to join me and I might make it a virtual Moët

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 5:16 pm AEST

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you werent JUST an RN @Eve7 i hate when people say that. Nurses never get the credit they deserve. Geezus most nurses know more then the drs do

I just got off the phone to the dr though. i havent spoken to the dr before from them. he said i need to call an ambulance or get myself to the ed now to get checked out so they can run some tests.

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 5:19 pm AEST

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Well Nurse Eve is telling you follow the Dr’s orders!!! Call 000 ass you won’t have to wait as long at the ed. Pop can get his own dinner tonight @outlander @Anastasia

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 5:21 pm AEST

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i am @Eve7 am waiting for them now. its scary

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