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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember16 Sept 2020, 4:36 pm AEST

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Little one, I am so sorry you are feeling like this. Sending you lots of love and gentle hugs my friend @outlander

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 4:36 pm AEST

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I am super proud you recognise it @outlander ...what can I do?

Are you safe hunny?

Would a call to Lifeline help? Is there someone close to you that you can confide in. I am sorry I don't know this already about you 😞

Sitting with you beautiful girl 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 4:37 pm AEST

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i have a hard appt tomorrow too @Former-Member i dont know if i can cope with it

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 4:38 pm AEST

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@Anastasia helplines done help 😞 they tell me to just use my coping strategies. cant call anyway have the kids till midnight anyway

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Unknown userMember16 Sept 2020, 4:40 pm AEST

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Sweetheart is it possible that the appionment tomorrow will help or is it not MH related? What happens when you get to your true danger zone friend. Of course don't answer if you don't want. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 4:43 pm AEST

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tomorrows appt @Former-Member is to discuss next options to manage a condition that might take away what fertility i have.

the last time i got into a true danger zone alot of planning come into play and ended up in hospital. usually when my sh starts to either get out of hand or i get so depressed that i cant even sh

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Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 4:44 pm AEST

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have a hard appt tomorrow too --- ohh my sister @outlander , sitting with you xoxoxo,

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 4:46 pm AEST

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@Anastasia i wouldnt expect you to know or anyone or anyone to keep up. it is ok i struggle to keep up sometimes too and your only new here too so you wouldnt know to much about history

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 4:47 pm AEST

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It's understandable for you to feeling this way with tomorrows appointment hun 😞 @outlander

Praying for a good outcome for you x

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Unknown userMember16 Sept 2020, 4:49 pm AEST

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That is a super hard one my beautiful friend, did it take you long to get that appiontment? Can you maybe change it for another day?

I can't remember do you have access to a mental health team, some early intervention might be a good idea to keep you safe little one.

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