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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Can @Former-Member please send her alter down for a visit?

jug has boiled here @outlander R u ok?

💜🤗💜

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Bear would love to help you or takeover cleaning for you because that is what she does always. We have a friend who we animal sit for when they go away and she always cleans their plaace while they are gone. Top to bottom and I don't understand why she bothers because within 2 days it is excalty the way it was before they left. Hubby also loves it when she is around because things like windows and window ledges, light switches and walls get cleaned. He is not worried about it when she is not as he knows the rest of us aren't that way with the house work. Our home is clean but lived in.... Come and join us @Lee82

@outlander , I am a little worried sweetie. are you ok

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hello @formaggio , is your profile picture a piece of cheese ?

Hello @outlander , sitting with you my sister

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I'm the same. My house is clean but lived in. My walls and windows are desperate for a clean I just don't have the energy or motivation.
@Former-Member

hi @Shaz51 and @outlander loge to join you for a cuppa.🤚☕️☕️

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love a coffee @Lee82

hugs @outlander , @Former-Member , @Eve7

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I am starting to lose motivation as well, this is not good I have so mcuh to do Time for another cuppa I think and more youtube videos on paint pouring This home alone gig is starting to get to me, it's far to quiet. Does anyone have plans for the weekend yet? very much hoping I will be back in my paint room by then.

@outlander @Eve7 @Lee82 @Shaz51 @Anastasia

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Hellooooo,

I am gatecrashing if that's ok with you ladies @outlander @Former-Member @Shaz51 @Lee82 @Eve7

never miss the opportunity to have a cuppa with friends. I brought some home made scones too 🙂

Hugs @outlander I am sorry your depression is worse. I witness it with my boy, it's awful. Sending you the biggest cyber hug xox

I definitely need your alter here @Former-Member my place could do with a good spring clean! Puppy constantly licks every window and two boys just drop what they have wherever it suits, I used to be over the top with housework and perfection. I learned many years ago to let it all go and just accept clean rather than tidy.

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Home alone hun...blast your music and dance around naked!!!🤣🤣

This weekend I have no plans. Kids are with their dad.
hoping you get to be back in your paint room this weekend too my love. I can't wait to see all the work you will be creating in there.
@Former-Member

@outlander @Shaz51 @Anastasia @Eve7

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@outlander wrote:
I think my depression is worsening alot @Former-Member
The one thing i thought would help isnt. Its making it worse

I'm so very sorry to hear this, @outlander 😞 💔 Concerned for you...

Can I join you for a cuppa? Thank you all for the invites last night, they warmed my heart...my log off time is 7.30pm Melbourne time, so I generally miss chatting to you all and sharing an evening /late night cuppa. Also I have a bad habit of leaving the forums open on my computer in the loungeroom and going to lie down and nodding off.

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More the merrier I say @NatureLover . What is the time difference between us, I am in QLD Dance around naked!!!!!!!!!! I don't think so @Lee82 maybe when I was in my early 20's that would have happened. @Eve7 , how is the housework coming along? @Anastasia , Bear would mind, but all this offer of housework is making me tried @Shaz51 , how is your face feeling?

@outlander , I hope you are ok

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