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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I think my depression is worsening alot @Former-Member
The one thing i thought would help isnt. Its making it worse

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Unknown userMember

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I am sorry to hear that it's made it worse 😔 You don't have to answer but what makes you think it's getting worse sweetie? I have some things I do that ring alarm bells for me, before I started with my current counsellor I didn't recognise the signs. Over the weekend I had a moment and thought to myself dam this bad. @outlander

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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My horse @Former-Member i dont even want to go there anymore. I havent been there for 2 days and it doesnt even bother me. I dont even miss it. Im regretting my decison. The last time i went i just stayed in thr car and my sisters fed them. That isnt normal for me.

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formaggioContributor

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Hey @outlander , sorry to hear your usual coping mechanisms aren't working today... its good to see people supporting you here 🙂 what else could you try this afternoon?

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Unknown userMember

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Wow that is a big one for you @outlander no wonder you think your depression is getting worse. What else would you do to see if you can alleviate it a little? I have no useful tips, sorry. I am happy to chat about it with you or we could try talking about something else if you want or I can just sit with you quietly. You tell me how I can help you my friend. I really am sad that I can't just call you and chat but rules are rules. Sending you the biggest hug I can

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Would you like a cuppa @outlander @Former-Member ?

I’m good at sitting while doing housework.

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Unknown userMember

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@Eve7 a cuppa sunds perfect. I can sit and work on my projects at the same time.

How are you doing my friend?

@outlander

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Im just plodding along today @Former-Member trying to clean my house.

How are you?

@outlander 💜💜💜

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Unknown userMember

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Housework 🤮🤮🤮🤮 Izzy has an ocd alter and we all love it when she is out because she loves to clean the rest of us not so much. I am working on my long list of handmade Christmas presents and wishing I had my art room back already because I don't have enough space where I am.

Why does the kettle take so long to boil when you are actually waiting for it!!!!

Why do my pictures come out sideways???🤯

@Eve7 @outlander

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